2. Relational Dynamics

3. Attraction Similarity Complementary Reciprocal

4. Attraction Competence Disclosure Proximity

5. Intimacy Dimensions: Physical Intellectual Emotional Shared Activities

6. Developmental Models Integrating/Bonding Intensifying InitiatingExperimenting Differentiating CircumscribingStagnating Avoiding Terminating

7. Self Disclosure Occurs in Dyads Occurs in Increments Few involve high levels Relatively scarce Occurs in positive relationships

8. Reasons for Self Disclosure Catharsis Reciprocity Self Clarification Self Validation

9. Reasons for Self Disclosure Identity Management Relationship maintenance Social Control Manipulation

10. I.Friends A.Three Types 1.reciprocity = based on equality 2.receptivity = imbalance of giving and receiving

11. 3.association = cordial, but not intense B.Needs of Friendships C.Stages of Development 1.initial contact & acquaintanceship 2.causal friendship 3.close & intimate

12. 4.cultural differences 5.gender differences 6.love & communication

13. II.Lovers A.Types of Love 1.Eros = beauty & sexuality, sudden & dramtic

14. 2.Ludus = a fun game, playful 3.Storge = companionship that lacks passion & intensity, friendly

15. 4.Pragma = practical & traditional (rarely deteriorate)

16. 5.Mania =Extreme, Obsessive, Passionate Roller Coaster

17. 6.Agape = compassionate & selfless

18. Communication Show Respect Don’t sweat the small stuff It is a package deal Make daily choices to enhance intimacy