PERSONAL DEVLOPMENT UNIT 2

Terms Defined Adolescence - The stage of growth between childhood and adulthood. Consequences - results of a choice made or action taken. Decision – the act of making a choice or coming to a solution Etiquette – manners, accepted rules of behavior. 4/21/2017

6. Impression – effect produced on the mind or emotions. 5. Goals – something a person wants to do, to have or to achieve, and is willing to work for it. 6. Impression – effect produced on the mind or emotions. 7. Needs – something that you have to have in order to live. 8. Priorities – items that rank high in order of importance to an individual. 9. Respect – consideration, showing regard for the worth of someone or something. 4/21/2017

Self-Esteem – the sense of worth a person attaches to oneself. Responsibility – an obligation or duty for which a person is held accountable. Rights – special privilege, benefit, or personal favor to which one is entitled. Self-Concept – the mental picture people have of themselves; their opinion about themselves. Self-Esteem – the sense of worth a person attaches to oneself. 4/21/2017

Self-Respect – the ability to hold oneself in high esteem. Values – ideas about right & wrong and what is important in your life. Wants – Things that you would like to have but are not necessary for survival. 4/21/2017

4 Types of Growth and Development Physical- has to do with body changes Social- the way you behave and act Emotional- the way you express your feelings. Intellectual- developing the ability to think. 4/21/2017

CHANGES DURING ADOLESCENCE PUBERTY-CHANGES IN BODY TO BECOME THAT OF AN ADULT. DEALING WITH HORMONES FEELINGS OF EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER ABILITY TO SOLVE MORE COMPLEX PROBLEMS 4/21/2017

NEEDS VS. WANTS NEEDS ARE THE THINGS ESSENTIAL FOR LIFE SUCH AS CLOTHING, FOOD, AND SHELTER. WANTS ARE THE THINGS THAT YOU DESIRE BUT DON’T NEED TO SURVIVE. 4/21/2017

VALUES HONESTY TRUST DEPENDABLE FAMILY MONEY MANAGEMENT KINDNESS MANNERS 4/21/2017

DECISION MAKING PROCESS 1. ID the decision to be made. 2. List your resources and alternatives 3. Analyze and study your alternatives. 4. Make your decision. 5. Act on your decision. 6. Analyze your decision. 4/21/2017

Setting Goals 4/21/2017

Importance of Goals Goal – something you plan to do, be, or have & something you are willing to work for. To reach goals make sure they are: Stated in your own words Positive Realistic Something you really desire 4/21/2017

Goals A. Personal Goals 1. Short-term Goals – goals that can be accomplished in the near future. a. finishing a homework assignment b. applying for a part time job 4/21/2017

Goals 2. Long-term Goals – more far reaching and take longer to achieve a. graduating from college b. starting your own business c. getting married 4/21/2017

Goals B. Group Goals – sharing goals putting aside your goals for a while to work together 1. Family goals a. repainting a house b. planning holiday activities 2. Community or youth group goals a. help a family whose home has burned b. raise money 4/21/2017

Achieving Your Goals A. Keep your goals in mind 1.Create a mental picture of your goal 2. Write it down & review it often 4/21/2017

Reaching your Goals B. Stay active with your goal 1. Go to class 2. Study C. Be Determined 1. Don’t let stumbling blocks get you down 4/21/2017

Human Resources accomplish your goal. Resource – anything you use to help accomplish your goal. 1. Human Resources – have to do with people. a. family, teachers, friends, neighbors, employers, people in the community. b. YOU – your health, interests, skills, knowledge, abilities, and attitudes. . 4/21/2017

Nonhuman Resources Material Resources – money, property, supplies, time, and tools. a. community resources 1. libraries 2. schools 3. churches 4. hospitals 5. parks 4/21/2017

Steps Toward Maturity Independence Dealing with Emotions Dependability Willingness to work hard 4/21/2017

Physical Traits Are the distinguishing characteristics of your body. People can see these. Ex. Hair, eyes, skin, nose, height, and weight. Some are inherited from your parents Lifestyle can affect physical traits 4/21/2017

Self-concept The way you see yourself Self-esteem is the way you feel about your self concept. 4/21/2017

Personality The way you think and act that makes you unique. Two factors affect personality-physical traits and environment 4/21/2017

Making the Most of Yourself Every day you make choices about what you will be. 1. learning a skill 2. staying drug-free 3. making new friends B. Being successful at something you work for feels good. It helps you feel more confident & willing to take on other challenges 4/21/2017

MAKING THE MOST OF YOURSELF C. Success and self-confidence go hand in hand. 1.Self-confidence means people are confident in their abilities. 2.With self-confidence people feel good about themselves & their accomplishments. 3.Even small successes help you learn to believe in yourself 4/21/2017

What’s Your Potential? Potential –The possibility of becoming more than you are right now. Being all you can be. A. Ways to reach your potential 1. Check out your interests and abilities a. Make a list of each one, (ask people who know you their opinion) b. Match your interests and abilities. 4/21/2017