1. Unit 2 Personal Development
Family CSI
Unit 2
Personal Development
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2. Answer “yes” or “no”
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3. Sometimes I feel that my life is changing too fast.
I find myself happy cheerful one minute and depressed and moody the next.
Sometimes I feel that my life is changing too fast.
I think a lot about the future
I want to be independent.
My parents treat me like a child
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4. I don’t always agree with my parents and teachers.
I feel taller ( or shorter or fatter or skinnier or smarter or dumber or whateverer) than all my friends
I’m sometimes afraid to speak because I don’t know how my voice will sound
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5. I feel awkward a lot of the time
It is important for me to be liked and accepted by my peers
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6. YES?............. CONGRATULATIONS!!! YOU’RE A NORMAL TEENAGER!!!!!
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7. Adolescence
The period of great growth and change between childhood and adulthood
Physical
Emotional
Social
Intellectual
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8. Physical Hormones! Height Growth Weight Gain Muscles form Body Hair
Always hungry
Need more sleep
Acne ~ A skin condion caused by overly active oil glands
Sweating increased
Clumsy and lack of coordination
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9. Emotional Uncertain, unhappy, and sensitive Withdrawn
Concerned with Body Image
Can recognize strengths and weaknesses
Desire Independence which is learning to do things on ones own.
Rule Tester
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10. Social Not Sociable with adults Friendships are group focused
Embarrassed by parents
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11. Intellectual Skills Abstract thinking Arguing occurs
Reasoning Skills improve
Focuses on Future
Sets personal goals
Learns to distinguish fact from opinion
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12. Hygiene
Practices that promote good health and prevention of diseases, such as cleanliness and maintenance of skin, hair, and nails.
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13. BE YOURSELF!!!
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14. IMPRESSION
Effect produced on the mind of emotions
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15. RIGHTS
Special privilege, benefit, or personal favor to which one is entitled.
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16. VALUES IDEAS OF WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG AND WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU
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17. PRIORITIES
WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU
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18. NEEDS
Something you have to have in order to live
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19. WANTS
Things that you would like to have but are not necessary for survival
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20. VALUES & PRIORITIES AFFECT NEEDS AND WANTS
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21. SELF CONCEPT
HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF
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22. POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE? “I CAN MAKE AN “A” ON THIS REPORT IF I TRY
WHY SHOULD I STUDY? I’M GOING TO FAIL ANYWAY.
NOBODY LIKES ME. EVERYONE IS AGAINST ME.
I KNOW IT’S A PROBLEM, BUT I CAN HANDLE IT.
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23. THIS SHIRT IS 2 YEARS OLD. HOW COULD YOU SAY THAT YOU LIKE IT?
I AM EXCITED ABOUT MOVING TO A NEW TOWN AND MAKING NEW FRIENDS.
WHY DOES EVERYONE ALWAYS BLAME ME? IT’S NEVER MY FAULT.
THOSE PEOPLE ARE STARING AT ME.
THEY MUST LIKE THE WAY I LOOK!
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24. POSITIVE SELF-CONCEPT
FEELS SELF-CONFIDENT
SOLVES PROBLEMS IN ORIGINAL WAYS
FOCUSES ON STRENGTHS
FEELS GOOD ABOUT APPEARANCE
ACCEPTS COMPLIMENTS GRACIOUSLY
IS SELDOM SELF-CRITICAL
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25. ACCEPTS CRITICISM IN A POSITIVE MANNER STANDS UP FOR BELIEFS
FEELS CONFIDENT IN ABILITY TO SUCCEED
MAKES FRIENDS EASILY
FEELS LOVED AND ACCEPTED BY OTHERS
APPROACHES LIFE IN A POSITIVE MANNER
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26. SELF-ESTEEM
The sense of worth a person attaches to oneself or how you see yourself.
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27. WAYS TO BUILD SELF-ESTEEM
FIND SOMETHING YOU ENJOY DOING. PRACTICE YOUR SKILLS TO FEEL SUCCESSFUL
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28. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. GET PLENTY OF EXERCISE AND SLEEP AND EAT A HEALTHFUL DIET
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29. RESPECT
Consideration
To feel or show Regard for others
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30. Respect is how you feel about someone
Having respect for someone means you think good things about who a person is or how he/she acts. You can have respect for others, and you can have respect for yourself.
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31. Respect is how you treat someone
Showing respect to someone means you act in a way that shows you care about their feelings and well-being.  Showing respect for others include things like not calling people mean names, treating people with courtesy, caring enough about yourself that you don't do things you know can hurt you.
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32. RESPONSIBILITY
An obligation or duty for which a person is held accountable
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33. RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR COMPLETE TASKS WILLINGLY EXHIBIT POSITIVE VALUES
ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR ACTIONS
AVOID BLAMING OTHERS FOR PERSONAL MISTAKES
EXHIBIT SELF-CONTROL
BE TRUSTWORTHY
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34. LISTEN TO HELPFUL ADVICE SHOW RESPECT FOR OTHERS RESOLVE CONFLICTS
ABIDE BY RULES
LISTEN TO HELPFUL ADVICE
SHOW RESPECT FOR OTHERS
RESOLVE CONFLICTS
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35. LEARNING RESPONSIBILITY
FIND OUT WHAT IS EXPECTED
LOOK FOR ROLE MODELS
BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF
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36. Are you the kind of person who makes things happen or the kind of person who lets things happen?

37. Goal~What you want to achieve
Two Types of goals
Short term (days, weeks)
Long term (months, years)
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38. Goals should be:
Specific
Challenging
Organized
Realistic
Evolving

40. To achieve goals: Have a positive attitude
Set priorities (decide which goals are most important)
Realize that you may have to make trade-offs
If at first you don’t succeed…….

41. Decision
The act of making a choice or coming to a solution

42. Decisions affected by:
Values
Priorities
Goals
Peers
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43. The Decision Making Process
1. State the Problem
2. List possible choices
3. Evaluate Choices
4. Choose the Best Option
5. Act of the Decision
6. Evaluate Decision
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44. Consequences
Results of a choice made or an action taken
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