Communication
I. Communication The sharing of feelings, thoughts, and information with another person.
II. Effective communication I-Message – A statement that contains. A specific behavior. The effect the behavior has on the individual. The feeling that resulted. You-Message – A statement that blames or shames another person instead of expressing feelings.
III. Active Listening Type of listening in which a person lets others know what they said was heard and understood.
IV. Active listening response types. Clarifying response – Listener asks for more information. Restating response – Listener repeats what was said in their own words. Summarizing response – Listener reviews major ideas expressed. Confirming response – Listener acknowledges the feelings expressed by the speaker and to show appreciation for the expression of those feelings.
V. Nonverbal Communication The use of behavior rather than words to express feelings.
VI. Mixed Message A message in which verbal and nonverbal behavior do not match.
VII. Passive Behavior The holding back of ideas, opinions, and feelings.
VIII. Aggressive Behavior The use of words and/or actions that show disrespect towards others.
IX. Assertive Behavior The honest expression of thoughts and feelings without experiencing anxiety or threatening others.