ANGER SYSTEM: Dealing with Your Anger in a Healthy Way Going for the 3 Increases: Increase in Health, Increase in Happiness & Increase in Energy Strategies.

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ANGER SYSTEM: Dealing with Your Anger in a Healthy Way Going for the 3 Increases: Increase in Health, Increase in Happiness & Increase in Energy Strategies for Success in Health Management By: James J. Messina, Ph.D.

ANGER System ACCEPT NAME IT GET IT OUT ENERGIZE RELEASE 2

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Accept you are angry Do not deny your anger Give up your denial & get in touch with your negative emotions Face your anger head on! 5

Name it Name the trigger of your anger which would lead you to revert to your old unhealthy habits to get rid of this feeling Figure out what is going on to get you so angry Try to name the unresolved old anger that this current trigger is bringing up for you 6

Get it out Get it out of your system by: Yelling silently in your head about what is making you angry & why it leads to your desire to revert to your old unhealthy habits Screaming in your head at your object of anger Writing down in a journal what your angry at & then reading it over & over again until you are no longer angry about it 7

Energize After you aggressively ventilate & experience an emotional release of the anger You will energize yourself to feel calmer, more relaxed, less anxious, less tense & less stressed Which emotional release will make you relaxed enough to not revert back to your old unhealthy habits 8

Resume Once your anger is out & you are energized You can resume your involvement with the person or situation, which was stimulus for your anger You now will be able to deal with the person or situation in a calm, cool, rational manner & not need to revert to your old unhealthy habits to maintain your cool 9

ANGER Journal Entry ACCEPT: What got you so angry that you revert to your old unhealthy habits to chill out: NAME IT: Identify what was really getting you so upset and angry at the time: GET IT OUT: rant & rave how upset you were with people, situations, or conditions, which were source of your anger: EXERCISE: exercise your rights & identify what you could have done differently in situation in which you reverted to your old unhealthy habits: RESUME: make a commitment to use ANGER System to rid self of anger so you do not revert to your old unhealthy habits to calm yourself. 10