Greetings general public who listen to me. My name is Glorybel Marín Fontánez, I am a student of National University College, On-line. I thank God first, my kids, family for their support, and my English teacher, Ileana Rivera Vázquez, for the love that has to teach and give that confidence, to break that barrier to speak English. Greeting

Assignment 7.1-Oral Presentation Topic: (Abuse) Violence against women Glorybel Marín Fontánez Teacher: Ileana Rivera Rodríguez National University College On-line

I speak for those women who can not or have not done, what is domestic violence, we are their voices, to raise awareness, we were made to love and be loved, not to be abused. The topic I have chosen is violence against women, it is something that happens in our daily lives and want and say to you woman, you are not alone, that no way out of that way of life, go for it, and why I want to speak, I went ahead and that is why I am here, telling you that you can. Introduction

Content (body) First I want you to understand is violence domestic, is the person who has a pattern of abusive behavior whether physical, emotional, or sexual. The abuser tends pressure, humiliate, insult, intimidate, harass, pushing, hitting, forcing sex, choking and may even cause death. I want to tell in short words, when I fell in love for the first time, I thought the way I had my ex-partner, (at the time), was love. His behavior have was controlling, manipulative, selfish, wanted me at work had mechanical, sat nearby, so having me watched. In public places, humiliated me, no matter who was, whether it was or not known, made me feel bad, I cried. At that time did not understand, they were signs of violence, and I did not realize what was really happening.

Objective My objective is to help these women, face fears, and out of abuse, this is serious, if not stopped in time, the worst can happen. Many times I felt very scared and looked like it was going to kill me inside, thankfully, never hit me, but with his hurtful words struck me, like I nailed a knife in my chest. What can we do if we are in this situation? seek help, talk to someone you trust, you have a lot of courage, to give you the motivation you require. You can help, and run the necessary steps to accuse him while refuge in God.

How can exit the abuse? To exit this we must take a position, authority, determination of the decision and ask God to help and strength. When I made the decision, I thought of something he had not experienced in 2012, before the leave for work, I was offended by harsh words; I was distraught, and chest tightness, I heard a voice within me that I cry, "you are worth much, date to respect, enough, no more." I understood that it was time not to continue with it, take the phone, call him and said, I will not stay one more day with you and I hung up. I went to seek protection and the support of my family, so I left. If I could, so can you. Once you make the decision to get away and be protected, should not backtrack. You have to be firm in your decision. That person will ask you again, who pardons, he loves you, you take away protection law, to approach or show you that has changed; do not believe him, that person says to give in. Be strong, and determined, would fall back into the same, think of your children, they also suffer, and depend on you.

Conclusion I want to tell you that you can survive on your own, do not have to be tied, as long as you hold, you can get ahead, study, work, make you a courageous woman, respected, it is not easy to face things alone with your children. The gain that peace and tranquility that long you have, that's priceless. Remember this, you must focus on what you want, organize your thoughts and see what you'll do, and if you can not alone, seeking professional help either, as a director of any church. It is you, you take this advice and think of yourself and your children. Do not forget that you're a great woman and vouchers lots, we are created by God for a purpose. Do not streets, raises his voice, learn to report the crime to make against you or another woman, now is the time to say "Enough, no more abuse." Thank you all for this opportunity.

Description The process of this work was something interesting, since choosing the topic, I thought rapidly in what I experienced with "domestic violence". Through work, I understood that it is a way to be heard and that others may know they are not alone, you can fight and get out of that cruel environment. I consider was somewhat difficult because the English is not my language that I domino. It was a big challenge. On the subject, I know a little about the subject, as you pass by this situation and had read about it. Just look for information on places that provide help, see how many homes provide protection, the law is there to protect you, and sheets for the job to see more creative, and interesting.

Reflexion My experience with work, was an arduous good, I liked it, to face my fear, about to speak or read English. It was motivating at the same time, hear and things you learn to improve and not face situations that may arise along the way. The work is a step up, what day we meet, if we go forward. You can not stop every time they hit the setbacks, the opposite is good to continue and learn new things, for our future. If we persevere and are brave, we can reach that goal we have set in life.