2. Identity vs. Self

3. “Identity remains unintelligible unless it is located in a word.” (Berger & Luckman, 1966)

4. Charles Horton Cooley’s “looking-glass self”- We look at the image that others reflect back to us through their communications (DeVito, 2009)

6. Never Graduated from high school Never Graduated from high school Product of an affair, which was concealed from him until later childhood Product of an affair, which was concealed from him until later childhood Raised by his Jewish mother- Teased at Temple for being blond haired & blue eyed-At Grammar school he was teased for being Jewish Raised by his Jewish mother- Teased at Temple for being blond haired & blue eyed-At Grammar school he was teased for being Jewish Pursued the life of an artist-Taught at art school Pursued the life of an artist-Taught at art school

7. Met Sigmund Freud’s daughter-Erickson experienced Psychoanalysis and became trained himself, by Freud Met Sigmund Freud’s daughter-Erickson experienced Psychoanalysis and became trained himself, by Freud Also spent time studying Montesori method Also spent time studying Montesori method Left Germany in 1933 when the Nazis came to power Left Germany in 1933 when the Nazis came to power Began to work with emotionally troubled young people as well as Yurok tribe’s children Began to work with emotionally troubled young people as well as Yurok tribe’s children 1 st child psychoanalyst in Boston 1 st child psychoanalyst in Boston Actually moved in with the family of a patient for a month to gain insight Actually moved in with the family of a patient for a month to gain insight Developed his own theories as his mentor’s were beginning to fall out of fashion Developed his own theories as his mentor’s were beginning to fall out of fashion

8. 1950- Published “Childhood & Society”, for which he is best known 1950- Published “Childhood & Society”, for which he is best known “Every adult, whether he is a follower or a leader, a member of a mass or an elite, was once a child.” “Every adult, whether he is a follower or a leader, a member of a mass or an elite, was once a child.”

9. 8 Stages- From birth to end of life (Expanded final stage in his golden years-Realized that his own development wasn’t finished) 8 Stages- From birth to end of life (Expanded final stage in his golden years-Realized that his own development wasn’t finished) Each stage has a conflict, a crisis question that must be answered if the individual is to make a healthy transition to the next stage Each stage has a conflict, a crisis question that must be answered if the individual is to make a healthy transition to the next stage Unlike Piaget, the structure is less rigid, an individual may move on without “mastering” a stage Unlike Piaget, the structure is less rigid, an individual may move on without “mastering” a stage Ideal scenario is that the person masters the “virtues” of each stage for the optimal result Ideal scenario is that the person masters the “virtues” of each stage for the optimal result Virtues- The individual comes to understand and accept the extremes of both sides of a life-stage challenge Virtues- The individual comes to understand and accept the extremes of both sides of a life-stage challenge Full understanding of the virtue may not arrive during stage Full understanding of the virtue may not arrive during stage ***See handout ***See handout

10. 1.) Hope 1.) Hope 2.) Will 2.) Will 3.) Purpose 3.) Purpose 4.) Competence 4.) Competence 5.) Fidelity 5.) Fidelity 6.) Love 6.) Love 7.) Caring 7.) Caring 8.) Wisdom 8.) Wisdom

11. You may be asked to do interpretive dance! You may be asked to do interpretive dance! Let’s look at this concept of virtues. Let’s look at this concept of virtues.

12. -The child at this stage is focused primarily on their own needs and perceptions 1.) Hope- Trust vs. Mistrust 2.) Will- Autonomy vs. Doubt 3.) Purpose- Initiative vs. Guilt

13. The child is beginning to understand the concept of “others”, particularily the fact that these “others” have a vision of them! 3.) Purpose- But in a non-home environment! 4.) Competence- Industry vs Inferiority

14. The person is developing abstract concepts and is able to see perspectives other than their own 5.) Fidelity-Identity vs. Role Confusion 6.) Love-Intimacy vs. Isolation

15. Development is NOT complete! People do not stop growing 7.) Caring- Generativity vs. Stagnation (This is easier to handle when you have a school named after you) 8.) Wisdom- Ego integrity vs. Despair (Erickson added this stage in his later life as he experienced it himself)

16. All stages are essential for healthy lifelong development of an individual All stages are essential for healthy lifelong development of an individual There are two stages that educators must be EXTREMELY sensitive too because of the major life changes children are experiencing There are two stages that educators must be EXTREMELY sensitive too because of the major life changes children are experiencing

17. “Transitioning from a relatively warm, caring, child centered kindergarten environment to a potentially more intimidating and less flexible first-grade classroom is also quite a struggle for many children…” (Sink, Edwards, & Weir, 2007) “Transitioning from a relatively warm, caring, child centered kindergarten environment to a potentially more intimidating and less flexible first-grade classroom is also quite a struggle for many children…” (Sink, Edwards, & Weir, 2007) The child’s whole structure of life changes at this point- Longer days, classroom structure, larger children, assignments, many teachers… The child’s whole structure of life changes at this point- Longer days, classroom structure, larger children, assignments, many teachers…

18. The child is just beginning to learn how to compare self-worth The child is just beginning to learn how to compare self-worth “…the classroom is a complex and social setting requiring understanding of the expectations and roles of teachers and peers and adaptation to a particular set of social rules and responsibilities.” (Porath, 2003) “…the classroom is a complex and social setting requiring understanding of the expectations and roles of teachers and peers and adaptation to a particular set of social rules and responsibilities.” (Porath, 2003) The child is now “forced” to deal with judgement & expectations-They will receive feedback from classmates, teachers, coaches, even parents The child is now “forced” to deal with judgement & expectations-They will receive feedback from classmates, teachers, coaches, even parents The child now also adds on additional group identities- Student, member of a homeroom, friend groups, teams, etc… The child now also adds on additional group identities- Student, member of a homeroom, friend groups, teams, etc…

19. Because of increased transportation & communication options, as well as a greater amount of autonomy, these students must negotiate a multitude of identities at a stage where their own self concept is fragile and malleable Because of increased transportation & communication options, as well as a greater amount of autonomy, these students must negotiate a multitude of identities at a stage where their own self concept is fragile and malleable The concept for abstract thought is more developed. This can lead to healthy questioning or role confusion The concept for abstract thought is more developed. This can lead to healthy questioning or role confusion The stakes are raised- Adult life looms and the choices carry consequences The stakes are raised- Adult life looms and the choices carry consequences

20. Be aware of the stages children are negotiating-Not every child develops in a linear fashion Be aware of the stages children are negotiating-Not every child develops in a linear fashion Encourage questions and autonomy Encourage questions and autonomy Allow children to experience success but provide realistic feedback Allow children to experience success but provide realistic feedback Provide support & resources when necessary Provide support & resources when necessary

21. “However, the intellectual standards individuals are measured against are generally set by researchers who are unfamiliar with the various contexts from which their participants are drawn, and tend to reflect middle-class ideals and the criteria for success in middle- class culture.” (Klaczynski, 1990) ***Our demographics are changing. What about the “non-mainstream” students?

22. Ethnic Ethnic Racial Racial Gender Gender Economic Economic Sexuality Sexuality What else? What else?

23. More than just who am I? More than just who am I? Who am I when I’m at school? With my friends? At church? Playing on a team…. In many cases, children are forced to make a choice as to which identities are the most valuable.

24. Now that we have a good understanding of identity, we can examine the idea of the self- concept Now that we have a good understanding of identity, we can examine the idea of the self- concept Like identity, the self-concept is developed socially Like identity, the self-concept is developed socially Somebody tell me about Charles Horton Cooley’s “Looking –Glass” theory! Somebody tell me about Charles Horton Cooley’s “Looking –Glass” theory!

25. No identity without self and no self without other people! No identity without self and no self without other people! “We see ourselves not by looking inward, but by gazing into the social mirror of other’s opinions of us, and even the opinions are not given directly, but are the products of our imagining of the other’s view of ourselves.” (Myers, 1996) “We see ourselves not by looking inward, but by gazing into the social mirror of other’s opinions of us, and even the opinions are not given directly, but are the products of our imagining of the other’s view of ourselves.” (Myers, 1996) Can we see where this can go wrong? Can we see where this can go wrong?

26. 1.) How does self-esteem affect a student’s behavior in school? 1.) How does self-esteem affect a student’s behavior in school? 2.) How does life in school affect a student’s self esteem? 2.) How does life in school affect a student’s self esteem? 3.) What do students see as their capabilities? 3.) What do students see as their capabilities? 4.) As teachers, are we aware of our preconceived ideas about our students? Can these ideas affect our expectations? 4.) As teachers, are we aware of our preconceived ideas about our students? Can these ideas affect our expectations? 5.) Are our students aware of our expectations? 5.) Are our students aware of our expectations?

27. The process of development never stops! It is fluid, dynamic and there may be opportunities for individuals to move forward and backwards. The process of development never stops! It is fluid, dynamic and there may be opportunities for individuals to move forward and backwards. This flexibility is both a blessing and a curse for students. I can’t help but wonder if our educational system is set up to challenge students at just the wrong time. This flexibility is both a blessing and a curse for students. I can’t help but wonder if our educational system is set up to challenge students at just the wrong time. We as educator’s can have a tremendous influence, both positive and negative. It is crucial that we are aware of how we influence a child’s identity formation! Erickson provides a road map for us! We as educator’s can have a tremendous influence, both positive and negative. It is crucial that we are aware of how we influence a child’s identity formation! Erickson provides a road map for us! We can provide the support and help develop the thinking that will help each student gain a full measure of the virtues. We can provide the support and help develop the thinking that will help each student gain a full measure of the virtues. Erickson speaks to WHY we teach. Erickson speaks to WHY we teach.

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