1. Too Good for Drugs and Violence Lesson 5
Getting What You Want
Too Good for Drugs and Violence
Lesson 5

2. MUSIC TO MY EARS What did you hear? Did you understand the song?
What was being said in the song?

3. SHAPE # 1

4. ACTIVE LISTENING Focus on what the person is really saying.
Observe body language.
Listen to the tone of voice
Paraphrase to show understanding.
Ask questions to clarify.

5. SHAPE # 2

6. COMMUNICATION What are some other ways we communicate? Spoken words
Body Language
Writing
Text
Computers
Sign language

7. TEXTING MISTAKES

8. What's Your Style?
pages in your packet

9. PASSIVE COMMUNICATION
Polite
Used to avoid making anyone angry
Don’t want to hurt feelings
Avoid Arguments
Put other’s wishes ahead of their own.
Often get hurt themselves.

10. AGGRESSIVE COMMUNICATION
It’s my way or the highway!
Do not respect the feelings of others.
Are often hurtful.
Use name calling and ridicule.
Always put others down.

11. ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION
Open, Honest and Direct
Stand up for themselves and what they feel.
Respect themselves and others.

12. myownjourney
page 3 in your packet