Тема: Can we learn to live in peace? Conflict resolution 1

The aims of the lesson are… 1. to discuss the types of conflicts, the reasons of conflicts and how to solve them 2. to listen to the conversations 3. to work with the topic of the lesson 4. to mind the use of grammar rule 2

Do you know these words? Try to read and translate ! A resolution, to quarrel,to approve of,to depend on, to shout at,to make a fuss, to happen, to make fun, to fight,to support, to put off Fair, to expect, to advise, responsibility,sympathy, to remember, ridiculous,to observe the laws of co-existence to obey, to punish, to rely on, to argue, to resolve To share, to get on, an editor, to prevent, to be upset,peacefully 4

What is conflict?  Why do conflicts happen?  Сonflicts may lead us to…  Can we prevent all conflicts?  What kind of conflicts could be? 3

What kind of conflict could it be? BETWEEN 6

Family conflicts. The reasons of family conflicts. Parents/children - want their children to obey them, -shout at each other, -don’t observe the laws of co-existence, -have too many responsibilities at home, -have nobody to talk to, -have nobody to rely on, -make fun of each other, -suffer unfair punishments, -don’t approve of their children’s friends 5

7 Five steps to solve conflicts.

Suggest ideas for solving these conflicts. 8

 14 February, 2006  Dear Editor, My Sons Tom, 7, and Chris, 15, often have fights. They don't with each other. They often....…about things because they refuse to share them. For example, we have only one TV set, and they can never it. The day before yesterday, Tom's favourite film was on TV, but Chris wanted to see the World Cup. So they had a fight again. My husband and l had an... ….about this conflict. I said that Tom had the right to watch TV because he was younger than Chris. But my husband said it was not Which of us is right? We want our sons to be good friends and to their conflicts peacefully. Sincerely, Ann Smith r esolve fair get on argument share argue Fill the missing words into the mother’s letter Use (red) words below 9

Conflict situations. 10

11  Why is mother unhappy?  What does she have to do around the house ?  What does she want her children to do?  Why do they think that the mother is not fair?  Why did the mother buy a new dress?  Does her daughter like the dress ? Why ?Why not ?  What does the mother think about her clothes  What is ridiculous in her mother’s opinion?  What did the father put off?  Why didn’t he buy a mobile phone for his son?  What happened to the boy’s brother?  What does he need to get over his illness? Answer the questions.

What caused the conflict in each family? -lack of independence -lack of free time -dependency on parents -unfair punishments -being shouted at -no sense of humour -too many responsibilities at home -nobody to rely on -nobody to talk to -money problems -no sympathy for the feelings of others -being made fun of 12

13  Count down backwards from 10.  Close your eyes and take deep breaths.  Think of a peaceful place or something that makes you happy.  Slowly say over and over to yourself, "Take it easy”,”Don’t worry” ." Remember that being out of control will keep from solving problem.Here are some advise how to cool off.

How to learn to live without conflicts? BUT… 14

To sum up…. 15  To resolve a conflict, it is important to be calm, confident and relaxed  The first thing to do is to talk  Don’t use the words that hurt people  Ask for help if communication doesn’t provide a solution  Take things into your own hands if people don’t support you  All people need love and understanding

All is well that ends well!  My advice is… try to avoid conflicts! Be kindhearted & fair! =========== ===========  Your homework: 1. learn the words from the lesson 2. ex 91, describe the conflict situation 3. repeat grammar Reported Speech p.212  Your marks…. Well done!  Thank you for the lesson! Good luck!!! 16