CONFLICT RESOLUTION Trey Rowe
Need to Know Conflict Resolution: A process by which problems are solved without resorting to a verbal or physical fight.
Cont… Conflict style: The way a person reacts when he/she faces a problem 3 styles: Problem solving Talking out your problems with the person you are disagreeing with to find a solution to your conflict Avoidance Not dealing with the conflict by ignoring the problem or changing what you do so you do not cross paths with the person you are arguing with Confrontation Causing a verbal or physical fight with the person you are disagreeing with by acting aggressively.
Nice to Know Based on a 2002 survey: 33% of teens said that when they were really angry there was no way they could control themselves 41% said that if they were challenged, they would fight 21% said that avoiding fights was a sign of weakness 33% have been in a physical fight in the past year
Cont… What Causes Conflict? Ugly or hurtful tone Letting your emotions take control. Cutting off the other person. Refusal to see their side of the story. Name-calling or insults. Hitting. Yelling or raising your voice. Stubbornness or refusing to compromise.
Necessary Skills Set ground rules Listen Find common ground Brainstorm possible solutions to the problem Discuss each person’s view of the proposed solutions
Sources National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center %20Fact%20Sheet%20for%20Teens.pdf eld=services;/content/DepartmentServices/View/68:field= documents;/content/Documents/File/124.PDF Mind tools Whalen, Shannon. Tools for Teaching Health. “Chapter 6 Violence Prevention.” Pgs John Wiley & Sons, Inc.: San Francisco