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How Healing Happens Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens Part I: Healing, Curing, & Holism Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens: The Introductory Course Class organization Basic principles of holistic healing Introduction to redneck Buddhism and consciousness Reflex systems and rules of thumb Application of these principles in your life

My Bio My left brain? M.D. FAAFP Hospital/ICU M.P.H B.S. USMC Officer: flying My right brain? Psy.D. ABHM RscP Acupuncture Hypnosis- Erickson Homeopathic Professional entertainer/musician

My Calling: August 12, 1984 Life evaluation 2x/year Successful musician/entertainer Where am I going next? How will I know what to do next? The Process

My Calling: what I discovered Holistic family physician A surprise to me I didnt know: Any doctors personally Anything about medical education There was no such thing as a holistic family physician at that time Saying yes to being called Didnt take no for an answer The power of answering the Call: Luke 3:5 (Isaiah 40) Every valley shall be filled, and every mountain and hill shall be brought low; and the crooked shall be made straight, and the rough ways shall be made smooth;

Healing What do I mean by healing? The revelation, the uncovering, the discovering of the perfection that underlies everything- and that includes me; that All is Well How will I know if I am healed? Remember when you were a child; remember the last time you felt that NOTHING could limit your joy Remember the feeling of being whole; being healed Write that down; right now

Curing vs Healing They are not the same thing Definition/origin: Curing (to care/worry): To effect a recovery from (a disease) Healing (whole): To restore to health or soundness

Curing relief or recovery from a disease something that corrects a harmful or troublesome situation to restore to health, soundness, or normality to bring about recovery to free from something objectionable or harmful Most often, my patients tell me that they no longer experience signs and symptoms of a dis-ease.

Curing vs Healing Most patients and clients come to me to be cured. To be fixed. But curing is always temporary. The latest pill The best herb or supplement The fastest/surest way to get rid of what is making them feel sick But, there is nothing wrong with curing Its not curing OR healing Curing can be a road to building faith; to experience healing

Curing vs Healing But remember, a cure is always temporary There is no perfect pill to heal you There is no best herb or supplement to heal you There is no fastest/surest way to become healed Endlessly seeking only natural or only medical or only spiritual methods/modalities of curing your ills will only lead to frustration But: Accepting where you; what you really believe in Seeking a holistic approach to the revelation of healing in your life can lead to what you experienced as a child: joy

Health and Healing What do they mean? If healing is the revelation of the perfect state of All is Well Then your health is the manifestation of this perfection in all aspects of your life: Body Mind Spirit Relationship

Holistic physician What does that mean? Doctor: from Latin: doctor "religious teacher, adviser, scholar," Physician: Classical Greek noun phusis and derived adjective phusikos meant "nature" and "natural. From this came the Late Latin physicus, which meant a doctor of medicine Holistic: 1926, coined, along with holism, by Gen. J.C. Smuts ( ), from Gk. holos "whole: the theory that nature consists of wholes. And that it is the tendency of nature to produce wholes- increasingly more functional systems.

Holistic systems René Descartes ( )Cartesian dualism: body & mind are separate Here, we accept no separation of body, mind, & spirit We use these aspects to remind us that we must address all these aspects if we are going to see our wholeness. Remember Gen. J.C. Smuts: it is the tendency of nature to produce wholes- increasingly more functional systems.

Three Legged Stool To remind us of our three aspects: Body Mind Spirit Relationship Body Mind Spirit

The plan for each class Three Legged Stool of Healing Mind Body Spirit Each class we will: Feed and strengthen the mind so that we may understand Engage in active practice to feel the change in our bodies Deepen our practice and commitment to knowing that All is Well Commit to sharing this healing revelation with others

The Three Legged Stool Dont settle for anything less Body Mind Spirit Relationship Body Mind Spirit

Three Legged Stool Body, Mind, and Spirit To experience optimal health and balance in our lives: Each leg of the stool must be equal The legs must be just long enough Too short- we are living like a child Too long- our heads are in the clouds Just right- our feet are on the ground and we are fully supported as mature, healthy adults Body Mind Spirit

Three Legged Stool Draw the legs of your stool right now: Body: how long is this leg? Mind: how long is this leg? Spirit: how long is this leg? Are they equal? Are your feet on the ground? Is your head in the clouds?

Pause and Reflect

The Heart and the Brain "Imagination is more important than knowledge. Albert Einstein

The Heart and the Brain There are direct connections between the heart and the brain

Neurocardiology This is the study and practice of how our hearts and our nervous systems interact The history of our nervous systems: The cells that will become every part of our nervous system begin in a single neural plate These cells are divided up and move to what will become: Our brain The nerve cells of our heart The autonomic nervous system The brain in our bowels The cortex of our adrenal glands

Neurocardiology

Many brains Two of the most important: Cerebrum Heart nervous system Heart Wisdom 10 times as much information goes from the heart to the brain than from the brain to the heart

Neurocardiology The history of our hearts nervous system: 3 weeks: primitive heart muscle cells begin to beat on their own- and rapidly get in sync w/ the mothers heart They become coherent- individually, and with each other

Tapping into the hearts wisdom Heart focus Heart breathing Heart feeling HeartMath®

Practice Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion HeartMath®

Recall Your Three Legged Stool Which leg needed the most attention? Were they all too long? Too short? This is an opportunity to use your heart wisdom to find new answers Use your heart to tell you what to do next

Practice Heart focus Heart breathing Heart feeling Now ask yourself: what can I do to bring my stool into balance? What would be the thing I could do right now to experience the joy of total health in body, mind, and spirit?

How Healing Happens Part I: Healing, Curing, & Holism: Review & Preview Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

Healing and Curing What do I mean by healing? The revelation, the uncovering, the discovering of the perfection that underlies everything- and that includes me; that All is Well Healing and Curing are not the same thing A cure is always temporary Endlessly seeking only natural, medical or spiritual methods/modalities will only lead to frustration But accepting where you and seeking a holistic approach can lead to the joy you long to know

The Three Legged Stool Dont settle for anything less than the perfect balance of: Body Mind Spirit Relationship

Neurocardiology Many brains Two of the most important: Cerebrum Heart nervous system Heart Wisdom 10 times as much information goes from the heart to the brain than from the brain to the heart

You can tap into your hearts wisdom whenever you want Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion HeartMath®

How Healing Happens Preview of Part II How we become sick Our stories and how they affect our lives How we become healed The three principles: All is well My mind creates my life There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth….. That…

Tap into your hearts wisdom this week: lifework Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion Take the opportunity to strengthen this innate ability at least 2 times each day. Preferably morning and night. Log in this practice on the following log:

Hearts wisdom practice log: Day 1 ____ ____ Day 2 ____ ____ Day 3 ____ ____ Day 4 ____ ____ Day 5 ____ ____ Day 6 ____ ____ Day 7 ____ ____ Now doesnt that feel better?

How Healing Happens Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens Part II: How we become sick; how our healing is revealed Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens Part I: Healing, Curing, & Holism: Review Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

Healing and Curing What do I mean by healing? The revelation, the uncovering, the discovering of the perfection that underlies everything- and that includes me; that All is Well Healing and Curing are not the same thing A cure is always temporary Endlessly seeking only natural, medical or spiritual methods/modalities will only lead to frustration But accepting where you and seeking a holistic approach can lead to the joy you long to know

The Three Legged Stool Dont settle for anything less than the perfect balance of: Body Mind Spirit

Neurocardiology Many brains Two of the most important: Cerebrum Heart nervous system Heart Wisdom 10 times as much information goes from the heart to the brain than from the brain to the heart

You can tap into your hearts wisdom whenever you want Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion How did the lifework go?

How we become sick Cosmologic Development to Personal Development Universal consciousness: the One Mind Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind Birth (Mind into material) Infancy Separation and development of self: learning the rules; The Four Agreements The first steps to separation Separation=sickness Growth Maturation Death Return to the One Mind

How we become sick Development of consciousness: metaphysical model: Universal consciousness: the One Mind Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind Birth (Mind into material) Infancy: As we learn the rules, begin experiencing separation (The Four Agreements) Growth Maturation: (C. Jung: before & after 50 y/a) Death We return to the One Mind

How we become sick Our Stories Universal consciousness: the One Mind- We have no stories Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind- We have no stories Birth (Mind into material)- the (potential) story begins Infancy: As we learn the rules, begin experiencing separation: the story grows Growth: we learn to tell our story to ourselves Maturation: we believe our stories; we tell our stories to others Death: we have no stories We return to the One Mind

How I become sick: telling my stories When I tell my stories, I separate from this moment When I separate from this moment, I suffer This is true for my stories whether I am the hero, the villain, or the victor My stories about the past and the future are never accurate I can only truly know this moment If you would stop your suffering, STOP TELLING YOUR STORIES The belief in separation causes suffering

Exercise: telling my story or being in the moment Take 2 minutes: write a story where you were the winner Take 2 minutes write a story where you were the loser Take 2 minutes: Heart focus Heart breathing Heart feeling The belief in separation causes suffering

Exercise: telling my story or being in the moment Take 2 minutes: write a story where you were the winner Take 2 minutes write a story where you were the loser Take 2 minutes: Heart focus Heart breathing Heart feeling The belief in separation causes suffering

Exercise: telling my story or being in the moment What did you feel when you told the story where you were the winner? The belief in separation causes suffering

Exercise: telling my story or being in the moment What did you feel when you told the story where you were the loser? The belief in separation causes suffering

Exercise: telling my story or being in the moment What did you feel when you Focused on your heart? Breathed into your heart Surrounded your heart with love, appreciation, gratitude- compassion? The belief in separation causes suffering

Pause and Reflect

How we become healed A radical view There is nothing that needs to be healed; only the truth revealed Our beliefs about our lives produce the experience of our lives You know many examples of this The radical thing about this is that I mean the statement literally: we are already living in a perfect universe that is always in perfect order. And that includes me. All is well

How we become healed So why do I feel so bad? Why do I get sick and eventually die? Our beliefs are powerful. Our minds have the ability to produce profound: Mental experiences Emotional experiences Physical changes and sickness; and wellness In fact:

How we become healed My mind creates my life

How we become healed Any time I move away from the perfect, dynamic balance of the All is Well it creates a force A vector Our beliefs about our lives produce the experience of our lives You know many examples of this This force is in proportion and direction to how I have strayed from the Truth There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth…..

Three Principles All is well My mind creates my life There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth….. That….

The First Principle All is well

All is well The universe is always in perfect order; if it were not it would fly apart. It would be logically impossible God/Spirit/Allah always sees the perfection in all situations; God cannot see imperfection where none exists It is WE who dont see the perfection

Evidence for All is well…. Why I know that all is well I have had direct spiritual and transcendental experiences that have told me that this is so Science The universe; all we know; is one continuous whole Physics

Evidence for All is well…. Physics Newton Quantum mechanics Physical cosmology: Big Bang; expanding, accelerating Universe: Another theory: Universe Reborn Endlessly in New Model of the Cosmos Recently gathered data from exploding, dying stars called supernovae have revealed that the universe is not only expanding, as predicted, but that its rate of expansion is accelerating. The only force that could explain such cosmic acceleration is a source of energy, not visible or yet identified by scientists, that permeates the entire universe. Physicists have dubbed the mysterious force "dark energy."Universe Reborn Endlessly in New Model of the Cosmos

Evidence for All is well…. Physics What we see; what we dont see…. What we know; what we dont know…. The manifest Universe:

Evidence for All is well…. Dark matter: >70% of manifest Universe about which we know next to nothing.

Evidence for All is well…. There is no discontinuity Most of what there is in our universe…we dont see…we dont know What we DO see/know is only a small part of the POSSIBLE. The possible of what we might see and know. There is physical evidence that what we see/know…the very particles and waves… come in and out of existence due to our intention to see and know about them. To measure them. Wheeler's Classic Delayed Choice Experiment

Evidence for All is well…. Wheeler's Classic Delayed Choice Experiment Physics\basic_delayed_choice.htm

Vector Math Direction & Magnitude "For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction." Rubber band

Vector practice : There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth….. Rubber band I cant figure out whats holding me back….

How Healing Happens Part II: How we become sick; how our healing is revealed Review & Preview Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How we become sick Our Stories Universal consciousness: the One Mind- We have no stories Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind- We have no stories Birth (Mind into material)- the (potential) story begins Infancy: As we learn the rules, begin experiencing separation: the story grows Growth: we learn to tell our story to ourselves Maturation: we believe our stories; we tell our stories to others Death: we have no stories We return to the One Mind

How I become sick: telling my stories When I tell my stories, I separate from this moment When I separate from this moment, I suffer This is true for my stories whether I am the hero, the villain, or the victor My stories about the past and the future are never accurate I can only truly know this moment If you would stop your suffering, STOP TELLING YOUR STORIES The belief in separation causes suffering

How we become healed A radical view There is nothing that needs to be healed; only the truth revealed Our beliefs about our lives produce the experience of our lives You know many examples of this The radical thing about this is that I mean the statement literally: we are already living in a perfect universe that is always in perfect order. And that includes you and me. All is well

Three Principles All is well My mind creates my life There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth….. That….All is Well

How Healing Happens Preview of Part III But what can I do to reveal healing in my life? I know where I am; I accept where I am Discovering my calling: the Process Surrender and building faith Special situations Suffering and symptoms Pain Mental health challenges What next

Become aware of the effect telling your stories has on your life: lifework Continue to use your heart wisdom practice this week: Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion Log in this practice on the following log Also: each day, notice when you tell a story about your life: briefly write down how the story made you feel on the following log

Hearts wisdom practice log: Day 1 ____ ____ Day 2 ____ ____ Day 3 ____ ____ Day 4 ____ ____ Day 5 ____ ____ Day 6 ____ ____ Day 7 ____ ____ Now doesnt that feel better?

Lifework: My stories and how they make me feel: Day 1__________________________________ _______________________________________ Day 2__________________________________ _______________________________________ Day 3__________________________________ _______________________________________ Day 4__________________________________ _______________________________________ Day 5__________________________________ _______________________________________ Day 6__________________________________ _______________________________________ Day 7__________________________________ _______________________________________

How Healing Happens Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens Part III: Faith, surrender and the symptom path to enlightenment Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How Healing Happens Part II: How we become sick; how our healing is revealed : Review Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

How we become sick Our Stories Universal consciousness: the One Mind- We have no stories Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind- We have no stories Birth (Mind into material)- the (potential) story begins Infancy: As we learn the rules, begin experiencing separation: the story grows Growth: we learn to tell our story to ourselves Maturation: we believe our stories; we tell our stories to others Death: we have no stories We return to the One Mind

How I become sick: telling my stories When I tell my stories, I separate from this moment When I separate from this moment, I suffer This is true for my stories whether I am the hero, the villain, or the victor My stories about the past and the future are never accurate I can only truly know this moment If you would stop your suffering, STOP TELLING YOUR STORIES The belief in separation causes suffering

Three Principles All is well My mind creates my life There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth….. That….

What can I do to reveal healing in my life? First: I accept where I am. I may wish to be somewhere else I may have a story about the past or a dream about the future, but I AM RIGHT HERE. Nothing more and nothing less. Second: I recognize somethings calling me Jaimi Luna song Be still and know that I am the Lord Third: Surrender and experience the All is well Meditation Heartmath® Running Dancing Playing music Drawing Healing modalities by healers

Revealing healing in my life? First: I accept where I am. Judgment: I may wish to be somewhere else. Or, I may like where I am. Or, I may be actively indifferent to where I am right now. I may have a story about the past or a dream about the future, but I AM RIGHT HERE. RIGHT NOW. Nothing more… and nothing less. Exercise: (5 minute worksheet) Centering/HM Where I am right now: Mind Body Spirit Experience: My mind is ______ right now. Breathe My body is ______ right now. Breathe My Spirit is ______ right now. Breathe Can I begin to experience each of these things…without judgment? Just observing. Just witnessing them. I may not like them or I may like them. But either way, I am where I am right now. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. Can I begin to just experience each of these aspects of my life…without judgment? Without fear? Accepting where I am right now. Even loving exactly where I am right now. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe.

Revealing healing in my life? Second: I begin to recognize something is calling me Becoming deaf: becoming numb I have heard something calling me before. When was the first time? As a child? When did I become deaf? Who told me I couldnt. Who told me I wouldnt? When did I start believing that I wouldnt and couldnt? I shouldnt. When was the most recent time you heard the call, felt the call- to do something crazy; to do something important- important to you? Didnt it feel really good? Feel that right now if you can. Exercise:

Finding your calling: the process: head Three questions: What am I being called to do with the rest of my life? What do I really want to do in the next three years? If I only have 6 months to live what am I being called to do right now? Head process- 2 minutes Write it down Spend an additional 2 minutes revising the list

Finding your calling: the process: head ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________ ________________________

Finding your calling: the process: heart Three questions: What am I being called to do with the rest of my life? What do I really want to do in the next three years? If I only have 6 months to live what am I being called to do right now? Heart process- 2 minutes Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion Write it down Spend an additional 2 minutes revising the list while continuing to breathe into your heart muscle

Finding your calling: the process: heart ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________ ___________________________

Finding your calling: the process Three questions: What am I being called to do with the rest of my life? What do I really want to do in the next three years? If I only have 6 months to live what am I being called to do right now? What are the differences? Make one list Choosing the top 3 Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion Write them down The rule: if there is a tie, HEART OVER HEAD

Finding your calling: the process: combined These are the 3 most important things calling to me in my life right now. Things can always change but I know whats really important to me right now: 1. ___________________________________ ___________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ ___________________________________ 3. ___________________________________ ___________________________________

Pause and Reflect

Revealing healing in my life Third: I Surrender and experience that All is well: The power of faith the Wright Brothers saw themselves enjoying flying with great facility. It is said that one of the brothers would tell the other, when their varied experiences did not turn out as they expected: Its all right, Brother, I can see myself riding in that machine, and it travels easily and steadily.

Revealing healing in my life Third: I Surrender and experience that All is well: The power of faith "For some years I have been afflicted with the belief that flight is possible to man." "It is possible to fly without motors, but not without knowledge and skill. Wilbur Wright

Revealing healing in my life? Third: I Surrender and experience that All is well When did I lose faith? When did I quit believing in Santa Claus? When did I forget how to fly? Story about 4 y/o, 6 y/o in my office When was the most recent time you heard the call, felt the call- to do something crazy; to do something important- important to you? Didnt it feel really good? Feel that right now if you can. Exercise: (5 minute worksheet) Centering/HM Write down every crazy thing you want to do. Have wanted to do. No buts. No conditions. I have a magic wand and I am holding it over your heart right now. Experience: My mind is ______ right now. Breathe My body is ______ right now. Breathe My Spirit is ______ right now. Breathe Can I begin to experience each of these things…without judgment? Just observing. Just witnessing them. I may not like them or I may like them. But either way, I am where I am right now. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. Can I begin to just experience each of these aspects of my life…without judgment? Without fear? Accepting where I am right now. Even loving exactly where I am right now. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe.

The value of suffering The perception of suffering impels me to pay attention to the difference between where I am and where the Truth is Remember the rubber band Choose again

The symptom path to enlightenment Ernest Rossi, PhD Milton Erickson, MD The experiences you are having that do not look like, feel like, smell like, or sound like perfect joy; perfect peace; perfect wholeness are your guide to what you seek This handbook; this owners manual is unique. The contents of this book; your symptoms; your signs; your life experiences are telling you exactly what is unhealed in your life.

Your owners manual Sometimes its difficult and even painful to read the book. Sometimes you need a tutor. Sometimes you just need more practice reading. Sometimes you need more faith that you can muster right now. Ask for help. The answer is almost always yes.

Special cases: universal principles Pain and fibromyalgia Mental health challenges

Fibromyalgia A bunch of crazy women…. ACR defn so general, almost everyone fits it some time FMS, CFIDS, CFS is a dysfunction of your entire life. A perfect model of dysfunction of body, mind, and spirit; a perfect opportunity for demonstrating healing of your life

My approach to FMS Do you really want to be labeled? Labels have consequences I am not my body I am: mind, body, & Spirit I am a spiritual being having a human experience FMS/CFIDS/CFS are dysfunctions of body, mind and Spirit

Remember the Three Legged Stool Mind Body Spirit Attachment leads to suffering

The (mental) Health Pie: P/A/D/S Dysfunction One problem; four faces Physical Anxiety Depression Spiritual

What if Im an atheist? Quantum mechanics String theory etc Let nothing stand between you and your good; especially orthodoxy. You deserve to experience joy and passion in your life. Seek wholeness in your life where ever it my lead you Your path is designed especially for you; take that journey joyfully

Summary: How Healing Happens Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician

Healing and Curing What do I mean by healing? The revelation that All is Well Healing and Curing are not the same thing A cure is always temporary Endlessly seeking only natural, medical or spiritual methods/modalities will only lead to frustration But accepting where you and seeking a holistic approach can lead to the joy you long to know

The Three Legged Stool Dont settle for anything less than the perfect balance of: Body Mind Spirit

Neurocardiology Many brains Two of the most important: Cerebrum Heart nervous system Heart Wisdom 10 times as much information goes from the heart to the brain than from the brain to the heart

You can tap into your hearts wisdom whenever you want Heart focus Heart breathing Heart compassion HeartMath®

How we become sick Our Stories Universal consciousness: the One Mind- We have no stories Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind- We have no stories Birth (Mind into material)- the (potential) story begins Infancy: As we learn the rules, begin experiencing separation: the story grows Growth: we learn to tell our story to ourselves Maturation: we believe our stories; we tell our stories to others Death: we have no stories We return to the One Mind

How we become sick Our Stories Universal consciousness: the One Mind- We have no stories Preconsciousness: the Individual Mind- We have no stories Birth (Mind into material)- the (potential) story begins Infancy: As we learn the rules, begin experiencing separation: the story grows Growth: we learn to tell our story to ourselves Maturation: we believe our stories; we tell our stories to others Death: we have no stories We return to the One Mind

How I become sick: telling my stories When I tell my stories, I separate from this moment When I separate from this moment, I suffer This is true for my stories whether I am the hero, the villain, or the victor My stories about the past and the future are never accurate I can only truly know this moment If you would stop your suffering, STOP TELLING YOUR STORIES The belief in separation causes suffering

How we become healed A radical view There is nothing that needs to be healed; only the truth revealed Our beliefs about our lives produce the experience of our lives You know many examples of this The radical thing about this is that I mean the statement literally: we are already living in a perfect universe that is always in perfect order. And that includes me. All is well

Three Principles All is well My mind creates my life There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth….. That….

Review: How Healing Happens: Part III But what can I do to reveal healing in my life? I know where I am; I accept where I am Discovering my calling: the Process Surrender and building faith Special situations Suffering and symptoms: my owners manual Pain Mental health challenges What next: lifework

How Healing Happens: lifework Do some form of spiritual practice, Heartmath®, etc twice/day Begin today to practice the principles of: All is well My mind creates my life There is a powerful positive force unerringly pulling me back to the Truth…..That….All is well. Consider the risks of telling your stories and stop doing it if you can Find your calling in your life and commit to achieving your hearts desire Ask for help; the answer is almost always yes.

How Healing Happens Jim W. Turnage, M.D., Psy.D Holistic Family Physician