Developing Management Skills

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Developing Management Skills Chapter 4: Building Relationships by Communicating Supportively Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-1

Learning Objectives Build supportive relationships even when delivering negative feedback Avoid defensiveness and disconfirmation in interpersonal communication Improve ability to apply principles of supportive communication Improve relationships by using personal management interviews Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-2

Positive Relationships Result in better physical and emotional well-being Help people perform better at work and concentrate more on the task at hand. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-3

Frequent Organizational Problems Reliance on technology Dominance of e-mail Less face-to-face communication Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-4

Problems with Electronic Communication Too much information, low quality No content to information, lacks meaning Interpretation of information depends on relationships with sender Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-5

Focus on Accuracy The ability to transmit clear and precise messages. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-6

Inconsistent Pronunciations ‘We polish Polish Furniture.’ ‘He could lead if he would get the lead out.’ ‘A farm can produce produce.’ ‘The dump was so full it had to refuse refuse.’ ‘The present is a good time to present a present.’ ‘The dove dove into the bushes.’ Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-7

Relationships Between Unskillful Communication and Interpersonal Relationships Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-8

Coaching and Counseling Coaching focuses on abilities: giving advice, direction or information to improve performance Counseling focuses on attitudes: helping someone understand and resolve a problem him/herself by displaying understanding Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-9

When to Coach or Counsel Lack of ability Insufficient information Incompetence Subordinate must understand the problem Counsel Personality clashes Defensiveness Other factors tied to emotions “I can help you recognize that a problem exists” Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-10

Obstacles to Supportive Communication Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-11

Attributes of Supportive Communication Specific Conjunctive Owned Supportive Listening Congruent Descriptive Problem-Oriented Validating Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-12

Supportive Communication Helps the sender communicate accurately and honestly without jeopardizing interpersonal relationships Based on congruence: a match between what an individual is thinking and feeling Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-13

Supportive Communication Is descriptive and reduces the tendency to evaluate and cause defensiveness. Describes objectively the event, behavior, or circumstance Focus on the behavior and your reaction Focus on solutions Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-14

Supportive Communication Is problem-oriented and does not focus on personal traits which cannot be changed. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-15

Supportive Communication Validates and helps others feel recognized, understood, accepted, and valued. Egalitarian Flexible Two-way Based on agreement Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-16

Invalidating Communication Conveys Superiority Rigidity Indifference Imperviousness Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-17

Supportive Communication Is specific and identifies something that can be understood and acted upon. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-18

Global Communication Focuses on extremes and absolutes which deny any alternatives. “My way or the highway!” Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-19

Supportive Communication Is conjunctive and joined to a previous message. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-20

Disjunctive Communication Occurs when there is, Lack of opportunity for others to speak Extended pauses Topic control Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-21

Interaction Management Creates conjunction by: Taking turns speaking Management of timing Topic Control Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-22

Continuum of Conjunctive Statements Insert figure 4.2 Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-23

Supportive Communication Is owned and acknowledges the source of the idea. Ownership conveys responsibility. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-24

Disowned Communication Results in the listener never being sure of whose point of view the message represents. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-25

Supportive Communication Requires active listening and responding effectively to someone else’s statements. In skills important for managers, effective listening was ranked highest. Individuals usually understand about a fourth of what is communicated. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-26

Responding to Others Four Types of Responses 1. Advising 2. Deflecting 3. Probing 4. Reflecting Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-27

Advising Provides direction, evaluation, personal opinion, or instruction Creates listener control over the topic Can produce dependence Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-28

Deflecting Switches the focus from communicator’s problem to one selected by the listener Appropriate if reassurance is needed Imply that the communicator’s issues are not important Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-29

Probing Asks questions about what the communicator said Used to gather information Can appear that the communicator must justify what is happening Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-30

Four Types of Probes Elaboration Clarification Repetition Reflection Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-31

Reflecting Mirror back to the communicator the message that was heard Involves paraphrasing and clarifying Could appear that the listener isn’t listening Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-32

Personal Management Interview A regularly scheduled, one-on-one meeting between management and subordinates Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-33

Personal Management Interview Step 1: A role-negotiation session which sets expectations’ of employees and managers. Step 2: A set of on-going one on one meetings to foster development and improvement. Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-34

Effects of Personal Management Interview Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-35

Culture and Communication Language pattern and structures are dramatically different across cultures There are, however, universal principles that apply to interpersonal problems Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-36

Behavioral Guidelines Differentiate between coaching situations and counseling situations Communicate congruently. Match feelings and thoughts. In communicating congruently, avoid creating defensiveness or disconfirmation Use descriptive, not evaluative, statements Use problem-oriented, not person-oriented statements Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-37

Behavioral Guidelines Use validating statements that acknowledge the other person’s importance and uniqueness Use specific rather than global statements Use conjunctive statements that flow smoothly from what was said previously Own your statements, and encourage others to do likewise Demonstrate supportive listening Implement a personal management interview (PMI) program Copyright © 2016 Pearson Education, Inc. 4-38

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