Starter: answer these questions Explain what religious believers mean by ‘ chastity’ . (2) Chastity is the… For example… Explain what religious believers mean by ‘ conflict ‘. (2) Conflict is the…. For example… Explain what religious believers mean by ‘Reconciliation ‘. (2) Reconciliation is the…. For example…

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What are the 4 different types of love? - Agape Eros Philia Storage What responsibilities do we have to each other in these relationships? Choose one relationship and explain the responsibilities each person has

Explain how having a religious faith might influence a couple who want a divorce. [4] Christians believe that divorce is… Muslims disagree with divorce because… Marriage is seen as permanent and sacred Divorce is accepted but strongly discouraged There are conditions stated for divorce Prophet Mohammed said divorce was most obnoxious There should be at least three separate attempts made at reconciliation before divorce is allowed There is a period of waiting before it can become final (3 months or 9 months Repayment of the dowry (mahr) also required Divorce is not God's intention It is a breaking of solemn vows or promises made in the presence of God Promises are made before God and the Christian congregation The promises refer to marriage as life-long union

Christians believe that contraception should only be used… Explain how having a religious faith might influence a couple who want to use contraception. (4) Christians believe that contraception should only be used… Muslims believe that sex… Sexual relationships are part of Gods purpose in creation They are gifts from God himself, and as such are holy and sacred (sacrament) Contraception should be used for a short period Sexual relationships should ideally take place within marriage Chastity is an important virtue Sexual relationships are special: reserved between just two people at any one time/ period of life; there should be no sex before or outside of marriage Sex is a gift from Allah; through it people participate in Allah's act of creation, so it is a noble and holy thing Sex should only happen within marriage, and couples should meet each other's needs Consider the teachings of a religious leader The impact of a baby outside of marriage

Christians believe… Muslims believe… Explain from two different religious traditions the teachings about Chastity (6) Christians believe… Muslims believe… Sexual relationships are part of Gods purpose in creation • They are gifts from God himself, and as such are holy and sacred (sacrament) • Sexual relationships should ideally take place within marriage • Chastity is an important virtue Sex is a gift from Allah; through it people participate in Allah's act of creation, so it is a noble and holy thing Sex should only happen within marriage, and couples should meet each other's needs

‘Marriage is not important anymore. ’. Do you agree ‘Marriage is not important anymore.’ Do you agree? Give reasons or evidence for your answer, showing that you have thought of more than one point of view. You must include reference to religious beliefs in your answer. [8] Marriage is the basis of family life • Some religious traditions do not accept divorce • Marriage may involve vows, such 'until death do us part' • Marriages do not always work out • Divorce is accepted in a number of religious traditions • Separation is an alternative to divorce • People live longer in contemporary society and this has an impact on ideas about marriage • Marriages may break down for a variety of reasons • Marriages may succeed for a variety of reasons • Marriage services imply that marriage is for life • Marriage is ordained by God

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Why do religious believers choose to marry? Bible & Qur’an say no sex before marriage – to have sex – procreation – family. So God is involved in their marriage – sacrament – make vows in front of God. Commitment – lifelong – “till death do us part.”

What are the features of a Christian wedding? Vows – promises – name some Rings – circle – never ending love Bible readings Prayers Hymns/worship songs – usually favourite of the couple Asking of the impediments Sermon Explain purpose Pronounce union

What are the features of a Muslim wedding? Vows – promises Rings – circle – never ending love Readings from Qur’an Mahr/dowry – agreed sum of money, property or jewellery given to the wife by the husband. Khutbah – talk by imam Prayers Nikah – wedding contract Bride does not have to be present –must send witnesses

What are the pressures on a marriage? Alcohol/drug problems Employment/career Financial problems Children/lack of children Affairs/adultery

What can a religious community do when things go wrong? Priest/imam offer help & advice Marriage guidance counselling Older & more experienced couples offer help & advice Family members offer help & advice Prayers Pre-marriage course Booklet about the religious teachings

What are the teachings on divorce in Christianity Catholic Do not allow divorce Not God’s intention Breaking vow “till death do us part. Sacrament Annulment If remarry without an annulment can attend mass but not receive holy communion Non-Catholic Last resort Jesus allowed divorce for adultery Accept divorce as UK laws allow it Discourage remarriage

What are the teachings on divorce in Islam? Last resort “Of all the things which have been permitted, divorce is the most hated by Allah.” Family help with reconciliation Husband must state 3 x in front of witnesses that the marriage is over Iddah – 3 month waiting time. Aim – reconciliation If divorce...wife given final part of mahr/dowry Must remain civil to each other