1. So You’re in Love

2. As a good Christian you believe it is wrong to cohabit You’ve been faithful You’ve been patient You want to spend the rest of your life with your partner Your ready to make a commitment and become one with your loved one You love them so much its painful

3. So whats the next step

4. Marriage

5. Write your thoughts on your post it note!

6. Marriage is... Choose three of your favourite responses and write them in your book. Marriage is... A union of two people Marriage is... In front of God Marriage is... To show people love each other

7. Christian Marriage Aims - by the end of this lesson you should Aims - by the end of this lesson you should : To be able to define marriage To understand why people do/do not get married To understand why people do/do not get married To know the purpose of a Christian wedding To know the purpose of a Christian wedding To create a To create a Skills Imagining Noticing KeywordsMarriageVowsProclamationDeclarationPrayersSermonRegister

8. Why do people get married? Why do people not get married? STRETCH AND CHALLENGE Have a go at answering this question in your book: What do you think the main reason for marriage is and why? Explain.

9. Can I explain why people do/do not get married? NOW COMPARE YOUR SPIDER DIAGRAMS TO YOUR PARTNER’S. HAVE THEY GOT A REASON YOU DID NOT THINK OF? IF THEY HAVE, STEAL IT! WITH YOUR PARTNER, DECIDE WHICH REASON YOU THINK IS THE BEST FOR EACH MIND MAP.

10. =Procreation: men and women were created to have children = Union: a loving partnership of living together. = Rearing Children: channel for nurture and security. = Pattern for society: family unit of mutual support. = One flesh: sexual intimacy as an expression of love. = Sacred: blessed by God =Endless: life long faithful relationship

11. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. Corinthians Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. Corinthians And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife and shall marry another, committeth adultery. Matthew

12. The Vows made to God and each other To have and to hold, from this day forward; For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part` 1.Which of these vows do you think is most important? Why? 2. Which of these vows do you think would be hardest to keep? Why? 3. What is the purpose of marriage according to Christians? 4. What do you think is the difference between a marriage and a wedding?

15. Can I use all of the information gained today to create a recipe for the perfect marriage? STRETCH AND CHALLENGE How many of these tasks can you do in your recipe? Include an explanation as to why you used those specific ingredients? Include Bible quotes in detail and explain their meaning. SUCCESS CRITERIA  Include at least 7 words to describe the perfect wedding  Explain how the marriage will be baked to perfection!  Refer to Bible quotes and vows in your recipe

16. On your post-it note... Give your partner two stars and a wish... SUCCESS CRITERIA  Include at least 7 words to describe the perfect wedding  Explain how the marriage will be baked to perfection!  Refer to Bible quotes and vows in your recipe

17. Your homework will be to complete this recipe. We need to see how you are getting on so far...

18. Quiz Time! 1. A marriage ceremony has to take place in a church 2.Marriage is seen as a lifelong commitment by Christians 3.There are 7 marriage vows 4.The point of a marriage is to have sex

19. Extra Stuff

20. Common features of a Christian Wedding Beginning the service: the priest welcomes the congregation and then reads out what Christians believe about marriage. Declarations: the couple make their promises in front of God that they will love, comfort, honour and protect their partner as long as they both shall live. Vows: The couple then make their vows to one another. Rings: The couple exchange rings Proclamation: the priest tells the couple that they are now husband and wife. Prayers: prayers are said for the couple. They may include a prayer for the gift of children, but this is optional. Readings and sermon: there will be some readings from the Bible and the minister gives a sermon. Signing of the register: the bride and groom, along with two witnesses, sign the register, which is a legal requirement.

21. Confetti Movie  Watch the 3 clips  Note down what features of a Christian Wedding ceremony each contains  What is missing, if anything?

22. Plenary – What do I need to do to improve my recipe? On your post-it note... Write yourself a target for your homework.

23. DON’T TELL THE BRIDE!! Your task is to design a personal wedding service for another group. You must include religious teachings and customs as discussed. Designing a Wedding Service

24. The exchanging of Rings With my body I honour you, all that I am I give to you, and all that I have I share with you, within the love of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

25. Reasons why people may marry In getting married, we are confirming our love for each other Marriage highlights (& makes official) the responsibility of one person towards another As it is a legal partnership, it ensures both partners have clear rights It shows the importance of commitment in our relationship It is a celebration of the physical relationship we shall have together

26. Reasons why people may not marry Marriage is very difficult to undo once it’s done Weddings are just too expensive! With divorce being more common now, some people don’t want to remarry The pressures of a wedding put a lot of stress on a couple – often leading to family arguments. We think it is an outdated tradition. We are going to draw up and sign a legal contract protecting our rights instead