1. Nicole Gasparri, CGFO City of Boca Raton Organizational Program Manager

2.  Welcome Back  Ground rules  Clearing

3. EXERCISE

4. Learning Objectives:  Assess your own leadership  Identifying areas where there are opportunities to grow and develop  Identifying what are the road blocks and/or barriers to success  Identifying action adjustments that will alter the outcome in difficult situations

5. EXERCISE

6. Predictable and Ordinary

7.  Right / Wrong  Good / Bad  Agree / Disagree  True / False  Should / Shouldn’t  Why / How  What

8.  I am a victim  I live in scarcity – there is never enough  I am alive temporarily and that is scary  I am always messing up  I am fighting just to get by  I am not good unless I prove it

9.  I create my own reality  I live in abundance. This is always enough  I am alive temporarily and that is awesome  I am on the right path at the perfect speed  I am safe to pursue what I love  I am good just because

10. RESIGNATION AND CYNICISM

11.  Looking Good  Avoiding looking Bad

12. EXERCISE

13. The Oz Principle, Roger Connor EXPERIENCE BELIEFS ACTION RESULTS

14. What leadership is not:  POSITION  TITLE  DICTATOR  DO AS I SAY NOT AS I DO  SCREAMER  CONDESCENDING

15. What leadership is:  LEADING  COMMITMENT  ADDING VALUE  CHARACTER  WILLING  COMMUNICATION  INTEGRITY

16.  COACHING ONLY WORKS WHEN YOU KNOW THE GAME PLAN  Tell the players what you expect from them ◦ Do you have expectations meetings  What you expect  What they expect from you  Give the players the opportunity to perform ◦ Delegate – 3 prong approach ◦ Let the players know how they are getting along  Instruct and Empower the players when they need it  Reward players based on their contribution

17. THEORY VS. ACTION ( Knowing versus doing )

19. KK

20. K DK

21. KK K DK Blind spots – don’t know that you don’t know

22.  That which you are unaware of is causing barriers to success  It may even be the barrier

23.  INTEGRITY  RELATIONSHIPS  EXISTENCE  COMMUNICATION

24.  INTEGRITY  RELATIONSHIPS  EXISTENCE  SHARING

25.  Honoring your word  Doing what you said you do when you said you would do it

26.  Sliding Scale of Integrity 100%

27.  Respect  Communication  Trust

28.  “I have learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” - Maya Angelou

29.  The tools  Appointments  Schedules

30.  There is too much to do and not enough time to do it  No worries we’ll get to it when we get to it… I don’t stress

32.  THE ARE ONLY 24 HOURS IN A DAY!!!!!

33.  Sharing / communicating ◦ Sharing with intention ◦ Sharing with a vision

36. Its all about perspective ……..

37.  Do  Have  Be  Be  Do  Have

38. Thank you! Questions? ngasparri@myboca.us