1. According to Harris, Three psychological persons can be found within each person:
(A)*The Psychological Parent
(B)*The Psychological Adult
(C)*The Psychological Child

2. The Psychological Parent, Adult, Child
They are present all of the time,
They take turns dominating according to different situations.
There is an appropriate time and place for each psychological person, but you need to figure it out!!!
The goal is to achieve balance among all three!!!

3. (A) The Psychological Parent:
Represents the taught concepts in life
The psychological parent:
Pressures
Blames
Finds faults
Gives orders
Domineers
The parent is:
Strict
Uncompromising
Inconsistent
Protective

4. The Psychological Parent
In the psychological parent are found:
In regard to others the parent:
Laws
Protects (overly)
Regulations
Dominates
Sanctions
Blames
Prejudices
Finds fault
Taboos
Threats
Social pressure
Sources of the parent are:
Parents
Teachers
Older Children TV

5. (B) The Psychological Adult
Represents the thought concepts
The psychological adult
Figures things out
Solves problems
Weighs consequences
Understands
Thinks things through
The adult is:
Aware
Creative
Responsible
Thoughtful

6. The Psychological Adult
In the psychological adult are found:
In regard to others the adult:
Understands
Values
Ideas
Trusts
Realities
Loves
Truth
Sources of the adult are:
Experience
Examined data from the parent or the child

7. (C) The Psychological Child
Represents the felt concepts
The psychological child:
In the psychological child are found:
Plays
Cries
Pouts
Explores
Laughs
Spontaneous
Demanding
Curious
Jealous
Charming
Carefree
Playful
Pouty

8. The Psychological Child
In the psychological child are found:
In regard to others the child:
Enjoys
Wishes
Fears
Uses
Feelings
Manipulates
Guilts
Takes advantage of
Delights
Frustrations
Sources of the child are:
Felt reactions to people and experiences

9. PARENT ADULT CHILD
PARENT
ADULT
CHILD

10. Moral Decision Making created by Lawrence Kohlberg
Levels
Preconventional- Focus on myself
(Most children reason on this level)
Conventional- Focus on the group
(Kohlberg claims that most people reason on this level)
Postconventional- Focus on values & principles
message of Jesus Christ is to make decisions from the heart

11. Pre Conventional Level
(A) Stage 1: Punishment or Obedience
I submit to authority figures because of the physical consequences for me if I don’t.
(B) Stage 2: Personal Usefulness
Something is right if I get something out of it.

12. Conventional Level (C)Stage 3: Good Boy or Nice Girl
I do something to get the approval and praise of others. I conform to group standards of what is right or wrong.
(D)Stage 4: Law and Order
I obey the rules of the system to maintain right order. Right behavior consists in doing my duty.

13. Post Conventional Level
(E)Stage 5: Social Contract
Right action flows from general principles agreed on in a society and on personal values. I should work to change a law if it will help make society more self-respecting.
(E)Stage 6: Personal Conscience
I make my decisions based on ethical principles that apply to all persons everywhere- justice, equality, the dignity of every human life.

14. HARRIS & KOHLBERG (A)*The Psychological Parent
Makes decisions in Stages 3&4
(B)*The Psychological Adult
Makes decisions in Stages 5&6
(C)*The Psychological Child
Makes decisions in Stages 1&2

15. KOHLBERG & HARRIS Pre Conventional Level- focus on myself
stages 1&2 psychological child
Conventional level - focus on the group
stages 3&4 psychological parent
Post Conventional level- focus on values
stages 5&6 psychological adult

16. Harris and Kohlberg What have you learned from these theories?
Sometimes we see people doing something
Sometimes we hear people saying something
But we don’t know why!!
We are too quick to judge!!
Be careful and gentle!!!
We need to respect each other!

17. Kohlberg Review (A1)(B2)(C3)(D4)(E5/6) name that stage!!!
Peer pressure; Follow the leader or crowd
It’s the rule!!! Doing my duty
Make decisions from your heart
I can’t do that! I’ll get into trouble!!
You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours!!!
Talk the talk & walk the walk
What’s in it for me???

18. Harris Review (A) PARENT (B) ADULT (C) CHILD name that psychological person!!!
Values and Truth
Playful and Jealous
Regulations and over protective
Figures things out, thinks it through
Pressures, blames, finds fault
Manipulates and takes advantage of
Understanding, Trusting, Loving