4 Gets input from child for rules and limits Gives children some freedom of choiceBelieves that children learn best by accepting the results of their actions. Use problem solving with child to find the best punishment
8 Methods for guiding toddlers’ behavior Set a good example so children can imitate positive behaviorsSet limits or behavioral boundaries that are age-appropriate and appropriate to misbehaviorMeet toddlers’ needs instead of punishingShow love for toddlerGive the toddler respectBe consistent
9 Methods for dealing with inappropriate behaviors of toddler Decide if misbehavior is intentional or unintentionalUse punishment to remind children that appropriate behavior is important and to teach them consequences of poor decisionsGive warning for first offensePunish in proportion to misbehavior
10 Select consequences that effectively discourage children from repeating misbehaviors Natural consequencesAvoid lecturing childAvoid replacing item ruined by behaviorAvoid taking care of the situation for the childLogical consequencesConnect consequences to the misbehaviorBe prepared to follow through with consequencesLoss of privilegeTime-outAvoid less effective responsesBribesMaking child promise to behaveShouting and yellingShaming and belittlingThreatening to withhold love
11 Methods for dealing with specific inappropriate behaviors of toddlers Directions:Fill in these notes on your handout labeled ‘Methods for Dealing with Specific Inappropriate Behaviors of Toddlers’ContrarinessTell in advanceUse pretend gamesTemper tantrumsPut expectations in positive statementsDiscuss treats with child before going to storeBitingLook directly in eyes of childSay “do not bite”HittingGuide child toward choices
12 KEY TERMS Characteristics of parenting styles parenting styles The manner in which parents express their beliefs about how to be a good parent; many adopt the styles of parenting learned from their parents because that is the way they were raised and they feel it must be rightAuthoritarianStyle of parenting in which punishment and control are used frequently with parents assuming power and authorityDemocraticStyle of parenting in which parents and children work together to set limits and make discipline decisionsPermissiveStyle of parenting in which parents let their children make their own decisions in order to learn from their successes and failures, setting few limits, and offering minimal guidance
13 Examples of methods for guiding children’s behavior role modelA person who is consistent and sets a positive example for otherssetting limitsDefining rules and boundaries between acceptable and unacceptable behaviorpositive reinforcementA response to a desired behavior that makes the behavior likely to be repeatedConsistencyMaintaining a particular standard or repeating a particular response in the same or a similar way
14 Methods for dealing with inappropriate behavior IntentionalDone on purpose, not by accidentUnintentionalDone not on purpose or by plan, but by accidentWarningA piece of advice given to somebody to be careful or to stop doing somethingNatural consequencesResults that occur on their own when a certain behavior is performedLogical consequencesResults set by parents to show what may be logically expected to happen following certain actions
16 Which is an example of words that are likely to be used by an authoritarian parent? “Johnny, let’s talk about your going to the fair.”“Johnny, think about what time you want to come home after the fair.”“Johnny, you can go to the fair anytime you want to.”“Johnny, you will not go to the fair because I do not want you to go.”Answer D
17 Which is an example of words that are likely to be used by a democratic parent? “Marilyn, you can stay out as late as you wish, no problem.”“Mary, you’d better not stay out one minute after eleven o’clock.”“Sarah, let’s take a minute to discuss the time for your curfew tonight.”“Terry, you are to be home promptly at eleven-thirty tonight.”Answer C
18 Which is an example of an appropriate method for guiding toddlers’ behavior? Sam put John in time out for two minutes.Susan ignored her son and made him go to bed without his supper after he spilled his milk.Suzanna corrected George yesterday about running, but let him get away with running today.Tiffany gave Tina an ice cream bar and then punished her.Answer A
19 Learning LogsResearchers have divided the methods and techniques for guiding children’s behavior into three main parenting styles.Pretend you are 35 year old parenting three children--a 2 year old, a 6 year old, and a 10 year old.Write on your own paper examples of what their daily routines would be in this situation.
20 Activity: “What Parenting Style Is Used in My Home?” Directions:Have 9th graders in an English class respond to the survey.Have them write their name and teachers name on the survey.We will compile the survey responses and make a bar graph of the results.
21 The Developing ChildRead Chapter 3 in the textbooks on Parenting Styles.Use the graphic organizer “Parenting Styles” Appendix 5.03B to record information for each style under the correct heading.
22 “Misbehavior Scenarios” Directions:Define and list 1 example of an intentional and unintentional misbehavior.Write what you would do if you were these children’s parents on the intentional and unintentional behaviors.After writing your answers, you will then switch with someone on the class and they will read your responses and determine what parenting style you will be one day.
23 “Dealing with Inappropriate Behaviors” Directions:Complete the handout using book.
24 Key Terms & Sample Test Questions Define terms using textbook.Answer Sample Test Questions using book and/or notes
25 Parenting Style Quiz Directions: Go to the following website to complete a parenting style quiz online.tingstylequiz.htmThere are no right and wrong answers.Write down your score and results.Match your results with one of the parenting styles discussed in class.Be ready to share your styles with the class.
26 MiTiReLa Complete Objectives 5.01-5.03 Total or Separate Quiz or Learning ModeRecord scoreWe will have our 5.00 Total Test Friday!
27 To do/Turn in list: Learning Log question/answer. Leave in notebook for 5.00 grade.Survey “What Parenting Style Is Used in My Home?”“Parenting Styles” Handout/use book“Misbehavior Scenarios”Dealing with Specific Inappropriate Behaviors of Toddlers-HandoutKey Terms DefinedSample Test QuestionsParenting Style Quiz-OnlineMiTiReLa-5.00 Total Test-Record Score