1. Nonverbal Communication

2. Nonverbal Communication: Facial expressions or body movements used to express attitudes or moods about a person, situation, or idea. Accounts for 70 –80 % of all communication Is more powerful than verbal communication

3. Body Language is important because: – 1) People remember more of what they see than of what they hear, and

4. 2) It helps to recognize the truth. - If words and body language are consistent,we believe the person. - If they send different messages, we believe the body language and doubt the words.

5. Amazing Facts of Body Language It’s estimated that humans produce up to 700,000 different physical signs! The face alone is capable of 250,000 different expressions Researchers have identified over 5,000 hand gestures and over 1,000 different postures

6. Positive Body Language

7. Relaxed Posture Sit comfortably and breathe in a calm manner Avoid abrupt movements

8. Arms Relaxed Uncross arms and hold hands palms up as a sign of openness

9. Good Eye Contact Look the person directly in the eye, especially when he/she is speaking Look away occasionally to avoid staring

10. Nod Agreement Slightly nod when a person says something you agree with, but don’t overdo it Continuous head bobbing usually means the person has tuned out

11. Smile Signals a warm, personal relationship

12. Lean Closer Reducing the distance between you and a partner indicates that interest is up and barriers are down.

13. Use Gestures Talking with your hands indicates involvement in the conversation

14. For all these positive gestures, moderation is the key. If they are exaggerated, they can become more negative than positive

15. Negative Body Language

16. Key Difference: Positive gestures are primarily distal-(directed toward others) Negative gestures are primarily proximal- (directed toward your own body)

17. Body Tension A wrinkled eyebrow, jerky body motions, or hands clasped in front all indicate discomfort

18. Arms Folded This creates a barrier and indicates resistance

19. Speaking Hand to Mouth Putting hands near your mouth or scratching your cheek or eyebrow suggest that you’re not sure of what you’re saying

20. Fidgeting Moving around a lot, playing with things, or drumming with your fingers sends signs of boredom, nervousness, or impatience.

21. Yawning Often happens if the other person is talking too much or is using too many technical details

22. Although it is practiced everywhere, body language is not a universal language. Symbols or gestures may have similar or totally opposite meanings in different cultures

23. For Example: The famous “Hook ‘em Horns” sign, made by fans of UT, has several meanings. – In Texas, of course, it means support for the team. – In Italy it is an insult – In Brazil it means good luck – Among Hindus it means “cow”

24. “America is the melting pot of the world.”

25. Right, Wrong, or Rude? Introducing Nonverbal Customs of the World

26. Handshake Americans view a strong grip as a sign of power and strength Southeast Asians press hands together Middle Easterners & many Asians favor a gentle grip Japanese bow

27. Japanese Bow Etiquette 1. Person of lower rank bows first and lowest. 2. The higher the rank of the person facing you, the lower you bow. 3. The longer the bow and the longer one holds the position, the stronger the degree of respect. 4. Then bowing to an equal, adding an extra bow shows a slight edge of respect.

28. 5. When unsure of status, the safest move is to not bow quite as low as the other person. 6. The proper form is to bow 15 degrees with the hands sliding down towards the knees or at the sides, back and neck stiff, and eyes averted. The formal bow is 30 degrees with palms on the knees and often bobbing up and down. 7. NEVER bow with a hand in a pocket.

29. Direct Eye Contact Americans expect direct eye contact Many Asians, Puerto Ricans, West Indies, Africans, and Native Americans consider it rude or disrespectful and may often send suggestive messages.

30. Waving Americans – Hello Europeans – “No” to most – Europeans raise their arms and move the hand up and down at the wrist

31. Beckoning Europeans and Asians – raise the arm, palm facing down, and make a scratching motion with the fingers Australia and Indonesia – curling the index finger is used for beckoning animals.

32. “V” Sign America – Victory or peace England – Palm facing inward toward the face is an obscene gesture AmericaEngland

33. “O.K.” Gesture France – Zero Japan – Money or coins Brazil, Germany, and the former USSR – obscene gesture

34. Thumbs Up America – Good job, approval, or hitchhiking Nigeria – Rude gesture Australia – Rude if pumped up and down Germany and Japan – signal for “one”

35. Crazy Gesture America – crazy or insane Argentina – you have a phone call

36. The only universal gesture is the…. SMILE

37. How to tell if someone is lying….

38. Decreased hand activity Unconsciously when you are not being truthful, you may sense that your hands will give you away, so you suppress them – hide them, sit on them, stuff them into pockets, or clasp them together.

39. Increased face touching Hand to face favorites of not-so- truthful people are: the chin stroke, the lip press, the mouth cover, the nose touch, the cheek rub, the eyebrow scratch, the earlobe pull, and the hair groom.

40. Stiff and rigid posture In general, people move less when they’re lying; their movements become less fluid.

41. Increased body shifting Think of squirming children being interrogated by their parents

42. Eye Contact People who are lying or creating tend to look to the left.

43. Personal Space Intimate Space – Up to 18 inches – Family & close friends – Violating this space causes friction Personal Space – 18 inches – 4 ft – Most conversations with acquaintances

44. Social Space – 4 ft – 12 ft – Most business communication – EX. Interviews and meetings Public Space – 12 ft and beyond – Public speeches and oral readings – Audience is usually strangers

45. Personal Space You Intimate Personal Social Public 18 in. 4 ft. 12 ft. 0 in.