1. Communication
Types and Techniques

2. Types of Communication
Childish: This style of communication is the easiest and most natural to use. It is also very immature and the least effective method of communication when you are an adult. It is effective in that you usually get someone to comply or act a certain way, but it is a one- way or dictatorial communication. It is characterized by:
-Self-Centered Motives -Verbal Abuse
-Giving Orders -Not Listening
-Whining -Interrupting
-Name Calling -Topping
-Yelling -Throwing Tantrums
-Punishing -Acting Out of Control
-Giving Instructions -Demanding
-Directing -Ordering

3. Types of Communication
Mature: This style of communication is the highest level and is the most desirable and effective type of communication. It is characterized by:
-The desire for open, two-way communication
-Taking responsibility for comments and actions
-Remaining calm
-Showing respect for other’s feelings and opinions
-Wanting to resolve problems with a win-win attitude
-Having trust in others
-Controlling emotions while discussing

4. Types of Communication
Non-Verbal: this type is the way a person expresses him/herself through movement, posture, and facial expression. It is possible to send one type of verbal message and at the same time, a different type with body language. Nonverbal communication is VERY powerful and can often be misinterpreted.
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70% of the time, a woman’s nonverbal communication initiates dating and guides the pace of the relationship?!?

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6. Communication Techniques
Constructive Communication
This contributes to a meaningful exchange of ideas and/or leads to understanding. Examples are:
-Giving positive or encouraging messages
-Asking questions
-Sending clear, concise messages
-Being honest and open
-Keeping the confidences of other people
-Speaking with respect
-Using tact- (communicating something sensitive without hurting or offending)
-Being a good listener

7. Communication Techniques
Destructive Communication
This is talk that “hurts.” Some messages discourage rather than encourage helpful or constructive communication. Examples are:
-Insults, harassing, teasing
-Gossip, lies, blaming and accusing
-“You” messages
-Sexual Harassment
-Threatening-Sarcasm- (when a person says one message, but nonverbal expressions and the tone of voice send another message)
-Interrupting or dominating the conversation
-Swearing