Electronic Safety Keeping yourself safe on the internet and cell phone Intended for Grades 4-5

Do you have a computer at home? 1.Yes 2.No

Do you have/use a cell phone? 1.Yes 2.No

Do you ever play games online? 1.Yes 2.No

Do you have an address? 1.Yes 2.No

Do you ever use Chat groups? 1.Yes 2.No

Have you ever visited Facebook, Myspace or other “social sites”? 1.Yes 2.No

Have you ever sent or received a text message? 1.Yes 2.No

Have you ever bullied someone online? 1.Yes 2.No

Have you ever been bullied online? 1.Yes 2.No

Electronic Enemies: 1)Cyberbullies 2)Spammers 3)Defamatory Sites 4)Child Predators 5)Cellphone Abuser

Dealing with a Cyber Bully…

What is Cyber Bullying? Cyber bullying is sending or posting harmful or cruel text or images using the Internet or other digital communication devices, including cell phones and PDA's (personal digital assistants)

Cyber-bullying can include: Sending cruel, vicious or threatening s or IMs. Creating Web sites that have stories, pictures and jokes ridiculing others. Posting pictures of other students/kids online with derogatory phrases or questions attached to them. Using someone else's to send vicious or incriminating s to others. Using instant messaging tools to harass others.

Save your Identity Only share passwords with parents/guardians Change your passwords routinely Set webpages, profiles, blogs, etc. to private

How much is too much? Discuss with an elbow buddy what information is safe to put on a webpage, blog, myspace or a facebook account.

Too much information: Do not give away your gender, age, or location in screen names Avoid posting photos that could be damaging now or in the future All pictures should be altered to remove identifying information Don’t post plans or where you are located Think about real life effects of posts

Defamatory Sites Changes information on your site without your permission Creates a site about you without you knowing Posts negative material or lies about you Created by cyber-bullies

Have you ever been a victim of a cyber bully?

Ways to handle cyber-bullies: not giving out your passwords or any personal information to anyone, either online or in person. not replying to a message from an online bully. blocking or instant messages from the sender. You can also save harassing messages and forward them to your Internet Service Provider (ISP). ISPs are companies, such as AOL, Netscape, and NetZero that provide Internet access to consumers. Most ISPs have policies that restrict users from harassing others over the Internet. Be aware! Cyber bullies can easily change screen names.

Ways to handle cyber-bullies: Ignore the bullying or tell them to stop. Tell a parent, teacher or trusted adult if you are being bullied online. This isn't "tattling“ or “snitching.” If you know someone else who is being mean to other kids online, tell them to stop and then tell a parent or teacher.

Spammers Sends you junk s or texts Sends s to everyone in their address book or in contact list Sends links to sites that contain inappropriate materials Sends the same material repeatedly

Cellphone Abusers Send bullying text messages Take pictures of people on their cameras without their consent or knowledge Use cell phones to text links to inappropriate sites, spam by phone Gang up on someone by group texting

Text Trauma

Child Predators Intent is to meet children for illegal purposes May intend to harm you May suggest to meet in real life Gathers facts about you from your websites, chat, and profiles

Ways to Stay Safe:

Avoiding Electronic Enemies -It is important to know who you are talking to when using electronic devices. -Anything you say to someone on-line or in a text has a permanent record, it will NEVER go away -You should report anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable to an adult. -Never attempt to “fight back” electronically

Electronic Safety Pledges

I Pledge… I promise to tell an adult about s or text messages that make me feel uncomfortable, bully me, or bully others. I will tell a parent if anyone asks for my personal information including but not limited to phone numbers, addresses and passwords. I will never meet anyone from online. I will tell an adult if someone online asks to meet me.

I Pledge… I will not create sites, post comments, or post pictures with the intent of hurting someone’s feelings. I will not use a cell phone or a computer to bully someone else, even if they have previously done it to me. I will not say things electronically that I would not say face to face.