1. Sexual Abuse

2. I. Sexual Abuse Any sexual act without consent. Any sexual act without consent. Minors are not legally able to give consent. Minors are not legally able to give consent.

3. II. Sexual Harassment Any unwanted remark, behavior, or touch that has sexual meaning or content. Any unwanted remark, behavior, or touch that has sexual meaning or content.

4. III. Examples of sexual harassment. Telling unwanted sexual stories or jokes. Telling unwanted sexual stories or jokes. Making sexual remarks about a person. Making sexual remarks about a person. Staring at a person’s body or body parts. Staring at a person’s body or body parts. Touching, patting, or pinching a person in a sexual manner. Touching, patting, or pinching a person in a sexual manner. Standing too close or brushing up against a person’s body. Standing too close or brushing up against a person’s body. Making sexual gestures. Making sexual gestures. Offering the person something they want or need in return for sex. Offering the person something they want or need in return for sex.

5. IV. Flirting vs. Sexual Harassment Flirting Welcomed Behavior Welcomed Behavior Leaves you feeling positive Leaves you feeling positive Respectful Respectful Fun Fun Wanted Wanted Flattering Flattering Enjoyable Enjoyable Sexual Harassment Unwelcomed Behavior Unwelcomed Behavior Leaves you feeling negative Leaves you feeling negative Disrespectful Disrespectful No fun No fun Unwanted Unwanted Unpleasant Unpleasant Illegal Illegal

6. V. Sexual Assault Any sexual activity in which force or threat is used. Any sexual activity in which force or threat is used.

7. VI. Date Rape Any sexual activity that is forced on a victim by someone the victim knows. Any sexual activity that is forced on a victim by someone the victim knows.

8. VII. Protecting Yourself At Home Keep windows and doors locked Don’t open door to strangers Don’t hide keys in obvious places On the Street Don’t go out alone, especially at night Be alert Walk purposefully Carry a cell phone By people you know Most sexual assaults come from someone known by the victim. Know the signs of abusive people

9. VIII. Help after a sexual assault. Make sure you are away from further harm. Call for help. (family, friends, trusted adult, police) Don’t change anything about your body. (evidence) Don’t shower or go to the bathroom. Don’t shower or go to the bathroom. Don’t brush or comb your hair. Don’t brush or comb your hair. Don’t change clothes. Don’t change clothes. Don’t clean up the place where you are. Ask someone to take you to the hospital. Seek therapy or counseling.