1. Independent Living Day #19 :)

2. Violence Cont… Warning Signs in Relationships Warning Signs in Relationships Abuse Abuse Substance Abuse Substance Abuse Jealousy – watchfulness in guarding a relationship with a love one. Jealousy – watchfulness in guarding a relationship with a love one. Arguments Arguments When Relationships End… When Relationships End… Blaming yourself is not realistic. Most end because they were not well maintained. Blaming yourself is not realistic. Most end because they were not well maintained. Learn from the relationship Think about what you can do differently next time. Learn from the relationship Think about what you can do differently next time.

3. Cycles For some people, it becomes a way of life. For some people, it becomes a way of life. People who grow up around violent situations, tend to become violent themselves because it becomes the “norm.” People who grow up around violent situations, tend to become violent themselves because it becomes the “norm.” 1 st – Tension builds between partners (triggers can occur) 1 st – Tension builds between partners (triggers can occur) 2 nd – Following abuse, there is a honeymoon stage (feels sorry and promises it won’t happen again) 2 nd – Following abuse, there is a honeymoon stage (feels sorry and promises it won’t happen again) 3 rd – Tension starts and cycle repeats itself 3 rd – Tension starts and cycle repeats itself

4. Power & Control Wheel 1. Anger/Emotional Abuse 2. Using Social Status 3. Intimidation 4. Minimize/Deny/Blame 5. Threats 6. Sexual Coercion 7. Isolation/Exclusion 8. Peer Pressure

5. Violence Videos www.dontletyourself.org www.dontletyourself.org www.dontletyourself.org More videos relating to violence. More videos relating to violence.

6. Violence Quiz We will have a short quiz today to reflect on what we have learned on violence. We will have a short quiz today to reflect on what we have learned on violence. After the quiz, you will have the remaining time to study and prepare for your test tomorrow – Chapters 6, 7 (Communication & Conflict Management and Chapters 26, 28 (Theories of Love) After the quiz, you will have the remaining time to study and prepare for your test tomorrow – Chapters 6, 7 (Communication & Conflict Management and Chapters 26, 28 (Theories of Love)