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1 Cycle of Violence Calm Romantic Phase Escalating Tension Explosive Event Violence Apologies Promises to Do Better UnknownTrigger Acceptance

2 Psycho-dynamics Victim Experiences: Fear Anxiety Panic Self-doubt Guilt Shame Despair Low self-esteem May feel trapped Variety of health issues Abuser Characteristics: Controlling/Manipulative Need for power Aggressive Obsessive Intimidating Explosive temper Regressive behaviours Borderline personality Sociopathic personality Variety of other psychological issues Any person who abuses another is mentally unwell.

3 Violence Family violence is widespread and global. It affects: All races All socio-economic classes All ethnic groups All religions All sexual orientations Women and children and men 90+% of victims are women and children % of victims are male One in three women in Canada are likely to experience abuse of some kind from an intimate partner In Ontario, rates of homicide, homicide-suicide have been rising yearly: e.g. 44 murders in 2006 (26 women; 12 children; 6 men) Past five years average 39 per year

4 Intimate Relationships Let your partner know from the get go that any abusive behaviour will not be tolerated Take lots of time before committing to living together/marrying: get to know your partner’s conflict style Watch for signs of an “external locus of control” Do not hesitate to take action If abuse occurs, get out of the relationship -- “wait and see” attitudes often lead to painful repercussions Do not blame yourself Healthy relationships focus on the elements described in “The Equality Wheel” on non-violence Professor Miskin’s Cardinal Rules


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