1. Growing to Greatness

16. “I would never do that!” “That person’s really awesome!”

17. matching these actions up to your internalized core values

18. strengthening your sense of self

20. unique stage in the realm of brother/sister love

21. intentional

22. need to make effort

23. start paying attention

24. making choices

25. not neutral: they have consequences

26. Practice!

28. Vision/Goal Pair share

29. Have people share from the audience

30. ultimate goal

31. marriage and family

32. spend some quality time in the brother/sister realm of the heart

33. If you’re immature, you’ll be looking to get instead of give

34. maturity or perfection

35. perfection

36. maturit y

37. managing your emotions

38. strengthen your conscience

39. notice how others are feeling

40. act on what you notice

41. defer gratification

42. marshmallow experiment

44. Results showed character, maturity and success

46. Spiritual Food: God’s Love and Truth

47. prayer and study

48. Receiving: from those older than you

51. mentors

52. parents

53. secrets

54. no excuses

55. know what you need and get it

56. What else do we need to grow?

57. Use our physical bodies to serve and love

58. experiment

60. What am I eating?

61. interference

62. weapons of self-protection and growth

63. choices Who am I hanging with? Where am I hanging out? What am I doing? How am I keeping myself safe? How am I protecting my purity?

64. what will I do if….

66. What kind of friend am I? Am I trustworthy, reliable, honest?

67. Friend Questionnaire

68. Am I a good brother or sister?

69. Do I protect the purity of others?

70. How would a true brother act?

71. How would a true sister act?

73. Am I learning how to love different kinds of people?

74. Can I adjust my attitude?

75. Do I add something positive?

76. How am I at relating to others in different social situations?

77. How often do my actions match my words?

78. How do I look at the opposite sex?

79. Where does my value come from?

80. What do I need to work on to grow closer to being a marriageable person?

81. Where am I in this process?

84. use the tools

86. Keep growing!

87. Tell story Shizuka Arakawa

88. Three things I can start to do differently as I work toward becoming my best self

89. S.M.A.R.T Goals Specific Measureable Attainable Realistic Timed

91. If you try to find intimacy with another person before achieving a sense of identity on your own, all your relationships become an attenpt to complete yourself

96. stay teachable

100. interference

102. break it down

103. mind over body 1.

104. strengthen mind and spirit 2.

105. serving others 3.

106. Not just a line we don’t cross, but a lifestyle, a direction, a mindset