1. Making Butch Behave Dr. John Draper CLAS Council for Leaders in Alabama Schools john@clasleaders.org www.clasleaders.org

2. Argumentative Uncooperative Unmotivated Disrespectful Defiant Deceitful Thats Butch

3. If you dont like what youre getting then change what youre doing!

4. Structure for Success Rules, consequences and rewards Head and heart combined Say what you mean

5. Promote Positive Peer Pressure Make it public Whole group rewards No group punishment

6. Consequences for the disruptive child are most effective in a contract form supported by the principal and the parent – signed by all parties

7. Contracts Terms Consequences Rewards

8. Date ___________ This is a contract made at ___________________ School involving: ___________________________ The terms of this contract are: __________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ The consequence(s) for breaking this contract: ____________________ _____________________________________________________________ The reward(s) for honoring this contract: _________________________ _____________________________________________________________ The persons signed below agree to the terms set forth in this contract. Further, they will do everything within their power to see that this contract is honored. Signatures: ______________________________

9. To be effective, a consequence must be… Possible for you to implement Unpleasant for the child Delivered in an assertive manner Provided every time a child chooses to misbehave

10. Only Positive Consequences Encourage Future Good Behavior John Draper

11. Consequences! Move him Send to a buddy teacher Lose privileges

12. Consequences Continued! Parent note Parent phone call Parent Conference

13. More Consequences! Writing Assignments Lunchroom discipline desk Detention

14. Even More Consequences! Standing Work details Bucket time Gum jars Block sanding

15. Even More Consequences Continued! Send to the office Send home immediately Home consequences

16. Home Consequences? Wow! Sports TV, X Box, Sega Grounded

17. Home Consequences Continued! Motorcycle, car Phone Money

18. More Home Consequences! Clothes Make up Paddling

19. One Minute Lecture 30 seconds of feeling 10 seconds of silence 20 seconds of compassion

20. Every Student is a Potential Winner Some are Disguised as Losers Dont Let Their Appearances Fool You!

21. Making Butch Behave Dr. John Draper CLAS Council for Leaders in Alabama Schools john@clasleaders.org www.clasleaders.org