1. Divorce

2. There are more divorces now then the early 20 th century... Turn to the person next to you and come up with two reasons why?

3. Emile Durkheim Who is called the “first sociologist” argued that the division of labour along traditional gender lines is the basis of stability in marriage and of parental authority.

4. Tradition Open your books to page 267. Development of romantic love as the basis for marriage and the changing economic role of altered the criteria with which partners assessed their satisfaction with their relationship...

5. Divorce Act of 1968 This reflected the expectations that marriage should be based on love and companionship and allowed divorce for “marriage breakdown” after separation of 3 years. At this point what happened to divorce rates? In 1985, the Divorce Act of Canada reduced the separation duration to 1 year. At this point what happened to divorce rates?

6. Divorce occurs for many reason. Sociologist Emily Nett identified two categories of divorce: marriage “mistakes” and marriage “failures.” She believes 17% of couples who divorce before 5 years of marriage are incompatible and they mare the wrong decision. She also believes couples who divorce late failed to adjust their relationship through critical transitions. What are come critical transitions? What factors effects compatibility in relationships?

7. Exchange Theory When the costs of the relationship are high or the alternatives become more attractive then the marriage individuals may choose divorce.

8. Adjustment to Divorce The decision to divorce occurs in a three- phase process over a two-to-three year period. Take notes on the following...

9. Awareness Phase One individual decides to initiate the divorce, after a series of ongoing problems and a period of denial. Partners begin to withdraw from the relationship by shifting their energies to other roles.

10. Separation Phase Couples plan the break-up of their marital system, settle child-custody and financial issues. Notify friends and family. Separate households.

11. Reorganization Phase Individuals establish their separate lives and negotiate their new parental roles. Note* Divorced individuals have twice the rate of suicides, car accidents and physical illnesses and six times the rate of psychological disorders compared to married couples. Read page 273