1. Honeymoon Stage The first stage of any relationship.
Initial attraction grows rapidly
It seems we have found love for our life forever.
Readily believe that this relationship will last forever.
Make long-term commitment even without knowing each other better.
It is wonderful life experience that we should remember always in our life.

2. Heartbreak Stage It happens, when over relied on another person.
Adult heartbreak is usually a replay of childhood heartbreaks – situation that upset us too much.
There will always be times in your life when you have to say goodbye and let go of loved ones.
But they need not destroy you. If you are devastated by a loss, ask yourself how much you have relied on that person to make you feel happy - did you become dependent on them?
Dependence denies your own power and gifts.
It is time to gain more awareness around your needs and emotions.
Become curious about these early heartbreaks and through understanding come to accept that you may have made mistaken choices about the situation and about your self-worth.

3. Sacrifice Stage
Much of our coaching is about building greater self-esteem
Great responsibility for the quality of relationships tends to ‘Blame’, If anything is wrong.
In romantic relationships or work situations we ‘Blame’ ourselves for not being good enough.
This causes us to sacrifice ourselves, rather than living our own life fully.
We subconsciously decide that we can pay off our guilt by being in sacrifice to the person we love.
The key to healing guilt and low self-esteem is to understand what was happened, and accept the mistaken choices.
Above all you must decide to forgive yourself and the people around you for what happened all those years ago.

4. Control Stage
We try to control people and situations to make the world fit our expectation of how we believe it would make us happy and safe, not necessarily we tend dominate other.
Control is a response to hidden fear, comes from not trusting that things will work out fine in the end.
Control leads us to power struggles and conflict.
The key with control is to apply trust to a situation rather than reacting or withdrawal.
If you have a partner who controls you, start by joining with him/her and gradually encourage to communicate about his/her deeper feeling or fears

5. Power Struggle Stage
For most relationships the honeymoon stage eventually ends, typically after six months to one year.
During the honeymoon stage we and our partner deliberately (though subconsciously) hide the negative aspects of our personality and behavior and focus on giving and receiving love. As we become more familiar and closer to our partner the negative traits are revealed. This can come as a huge disappointment because we realize that they are not as perfect as we thought.
The sense of unease causes each partner to withdraw and this sets up a vicious circle and damaging pattern for the relationship.
Some of us will act out our power struggle through arguments while some of us will use withdrawal and moodiness.
The important thing to realize in the power struggle stage is that both partners are competing to see who will meet the emotional needs of the other.
Have the courage to move to your partner with love and sensitivity and re-connect soon. Begin Honeymoon stage again!

6. Dead Zone Stage
In the Dead Zone a relationship loses its sense of connection and the feelings of love.
Love may remain as an idea, rather than a feeling - that you experienced when you first fell in love.
Both the Power Struggle and the Dead Zone that usually follows are caused by a fear of intimacy - one of our greatest repressed fears.
The key to getting out of the dead zone is to commit to your partner to move towards emotionally so that you can once again begin to feel and share your full spectrum of emotions.
As your hearts open again you will become much more emotionally aware and healing will automatically occur. You will once again begin to feel those powerful feelings of love that bought you together in the first place.

7. Fear of Intimacy
Navigating this corner is the key to an amazing relationship! You will need to understand and breakthrough your fear of intimacy and help your partner do the same.

8. Leadership Stage
LEADERSHIP - One of the easiest ways to move into Interdependence, which means responding to the emotional needs of the people around us with love and compassion.
This can be difficult because of our own fears around emotional intimacy, our tendency to self-attack and our fear of attack from other people.
Leadership in the Psychology of Vision model is making our partner's problems more important than our own and is a real act of love.
Relationships are rarely fairy tales - we must be willing to continually work at them. If we have the courage to do this, then the rewards are assured.
If you are feeling negative feelings or difficulties in your relationship always move towards your partner and join with them with feelings of forgiveness, love and compassion - do this with an open heart and it never fails.-
You may have to move towards your partner in this way, time and again, as many layers of pain come up from deep within their mind, but each time you will experience a new honeymoon stage.

9. Vision Stage
Vision always leads us to a high level of partnership which is full of creativity, intuition and fun.
As we let go of our fear and guilt we will naturally reveal our true selves which will always be full of creativity, confidence and giftedness. We will have faith in a positive future, rather than dwell on the problems and pain of the past.
Life will become easier by releasing our vision and we will increasingly use our intuition to solve problems.

10. Mastery Stage
A very high level of connection where you have healed many of your fears and insecurities that lie between you and your partner.
During Vision we will have increasingly embraced our higher mind and states of consciousness and recognize that our capacity for love and creativity originates from an innate spirituality.
As we let go of our deepest fears we focus on our life's purpose and experience our true potential in our relationships and our work. We live in the present in a state of love, joy and peace.
Learning to trust your spiritual guidance and to live for the moment. Letting-go of your deepest fears and revealing the love that lies beneath. In a state of 'being' rather than 'doing'
Of course, achieving such a level of joining in a relationship is not easy. If you are not feeling physically and emotionally close to your partner, then there is still fear of intimacy.

11. True Love Stage
If we can gain sufficient self-awareness and access our highest states of consciousness we may realize that everything and everybody is connected in a vast energy field that is called Oneness.
We are essentially all one and linked by love.
This explains why we suffer so much when we deny this state of connection and create separation in our relationships.
It also tells us how we can find true happiness - all we need to do is re-connect and embrace the loving bonds that unite us all.
The ultimate goal of a relationship where the bonding is physical, emotional, and spiritual.
In this stage of relationship we melt together with our partner and feel ‘Oneness’.