1. Chapter 19 Healthy Romantic Relationships

2. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.2 Chapter Objectives 1.Explain Sternberg’s three components of love 2.Describe the similarities and differences between friendships and romantic relationships 3.Explain some of the purposes of dating 4.Identify several advantages and disadvantages of various types of dating relationships (continues)

3. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.3 Chapter Objectives (continued) 5.List and describe factors that can cause problems in a teen romantic relationship 6.Give reasons why a teen romantic relationship might break up 7.Identify characteristics of addictive and abusive romantic relationships 8.Create a personal action plan to guide your involvement in romantic relationships

4. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.4 Introduction Young teens may or may not be interested in romantic relationships – both circumstances are normal Romantic love is based on attraction, affection, and/or sexual interest Dating is a way to gain experience in romantic relationships

5. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.5 Sternberg’s Love Triangle Describes romantic love as based on three components 1.Passion 2.Intimacy 3.Commitment

6. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.6 The Process of Dating Reasons for dating Deciding when to date Types of teen dating relationships Dating ethics What to do on a date Tough teen dating issues Breaking up

7. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.7 Unhealthy Relationships Toxic: romantic involvements with negative consequences for one or both partners Addictive: one partner becomes too dependent on the other Abusive: one partner uses power to dominate the other

8. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.8 Summary Romantic relationships are a natural part of adult life Normal young teens may or may not be interested in romantic relationships Dating is a way to learn about yourself and relationships Respect and consideration should always be demonstrated for friends and romantic partners