1. Outsider
Have you ever felt like an outsider or like you didn’t belong?
Have you ever judged someone because he/she thought differently than you?

2. All Summer in a Day
By Ray Bradbury

3. Physical Bullying
Pushing Shoving Kicking Spitting Hitting Stealing Threatening with a weapon Locking in a closed space Physical harm Vandalizing property

4. Verbal Bullying
Mocking Name calling Threats to destroy property Dirty looks Mean Teasing Threats of violence

5. Intimidation Bullying
Threatening to tell secrets Graffiti Defacing property or clothes Playing a mean joke/prank/trick Hiding or taking possessions

6. Manipulative Bullying
Excluding them from group
Gossiping Racial slurs
Embarrassing or humiliating
Setting them up to look foolish
or take the blame
Spreading rumors

7. Why Do People Bully?
They were bullied Low self-esteem Be popular Threatened to go along Caught up in “group think.” Get power from taking yours Attention Feel important

8. What Should I Do?
Be honest about it Don’t react Keep a record of events Tell someone Leave the situation Ask for help until you get it

9. Guilty Bystanders
Bullies win if you watch and do nothing!” Bullies want an audience. If you don’t watch, they stop. If ONE person watching tells the bully to stop, the bully usually stops. If you are scared to say anything, walk away and get an adult to stop it.

10. Using Your Power

11. Power
It may not seem like it sometimes, but you always have power in your life.
Sometimes you use your power in the wrong way, so you hurt yourself or someone else.

12. Personal Power - Assertive
This is the perfect kind of power. It makes your life and everyone else’s life better.
Honest Responsible Open-minded
Choose appropriate decisions
Say what you need Doer
Flexible Goal Getter Confident
Compassionate Positive Risk-Taker

13. Abusive Power - Aggressive
This kind of power hurts other people and makes your life miserable. Abusive power is forcing your will on to another person.
Controlling Pushy Rude
Violent Bossy Threatening
Acting superior
Interrupting Cruel Angry
Mean teasing Insensitive

14. Abdicated Power - Passive
You hurt yourself when you don’t take personal responsibility. Passive power is giving your power to another person.
No eye contact Hide Withdraw
Don’t give your opinion
Silent Mumble
Don’t make a decision
Walk with your head down
Feel sorry for yourself

15. Manipulative Power - Deceptive
People don’t like to be controlled.
This kind of power hurts people and makes them dislike you. Manipulative power is controlling another person.
Lying Spreading gossip
Taking people’s stuff Sneaky
Spreading rumors
Making people feel guilty
Mean teasing Silent treatment
Nothing is ever your fault

16. Your Challenge
Start 3rd quarter by noticing how you use your power and how the people around you use their power. Then try and get more personal power for yourself. This power makes you happier, more respected, and more liked by everyone around you.