1. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY

2. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY Speaking and acting in accordance with the truth Keeping every promise we make Integrity = words and actions are consistent with values and principles Dishonesty deceiving, misleading, misrepresenting the truth Hypocrisy pretending to be something/someone we are not

3. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY Treachery among the Sawi Unexpected candor - Must Love Dogs Every social activity, every human enterprise requiring people to act in concert, is impeded when people are not honest with one another. – William J. Bennett Ainsley Hayes White House Attorney

4. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY HONEST Trust Authenticity Commitment DISHONEST Betrayal Emotional injury Termination

5. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY To get out of trouble To look good to others To avoid facing our failure To protect somebody’s feelings It’s sometimes easy to lie

6. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY Verbal deception cues curt replies hesitation during speech speech errors more “allness” terms defensiveness Nonverbal deception cues less smiling higher voice pitch blinking and pupil dilation nervous self-touching

7. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY Be honest with yourself Admit past failures in honesty or integrity Make reparations if appropriate Choose honest friends We become like the people we spend time with Hold your friends accountable Be a good model for others Younger kids look up to you as a college student

9. What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications HONESTY Required Readings How honesty and belief collide in the Santa Claus myththe Santa Claus myth Katie Couric’s tribute to a life of integrity – Rev. Billy Grahama life of integrity Yet, like all of us, Rev. Graham sometimes has to walk a fine linewalk a fine line When Presidents Lie – an essay about official deceptionWhen Presidents Lie Communicating deception - some key points from Ekman’s book Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and MarriageCommunicating deception Prompt for Today’s Journal Entry Refer to relevant readings above as you discuss civility vs. candor. For example, is it ever acceptable to misrepresent or omit the truth? Where do you draw the line between kindness and deception?