1. How do you see yourself, others and the world? Paradigms and Principles

2. What glasses would you choose?

3. Can you see yourself and others clearly? Do you keep a positive and flexible perspective?

4. Or do you see only what YOU want to see?

6. Remember that other people see you through their glasses as well!

7. It is only you who can choose the right pair… WARNING: what you see is what you get!!!

8. Paradigms : perspectives, perceptions, points of view, opinions, etc. 3 Types: 1.How you see yourself 2.How you see others 3.How you see the world (life) - like a pair of glasses Centers and Principles:

25. Centers: subjective and temporary areas of interest relationships hobbies stuff work grades heroes parents enemies friends

26. Principles: TRUE RULES/VALUES for human nature HONESTY RESPONSIBILITY MODERATION RESPECT INTEGRITY LOYALTY GRATITUDE LOVE SERVICE FAIRNESS CARE AWARENESS KINDNESS

27. Paradigm shift = sudden change of perspective

29. Homework: Top Ten Happiness 1 thing that makes you extremely happy … 1 thing that makes you minimally happy - realistic ideas - verbs in positive tenses - nothing negative (liars, pain, etc.)