NEW SOUTH RIVER BAPTIST ASSOCIATION Sam Gore, resource specialist Welcome to Concord Baptist Church.

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NEW SOUTH RIVER BAPTIST ASSOCIATION Sam Gore, resource specialist Welcome to Concord Baptist Church

 What causes Conflict? 1. Misunderstandings 2. Differences in values, goals, gifts, calling, priorities, expectations, interest, or opinions 3. Competition over limited resources 4. Sinful attitudes and desires, that lead to sinful words and actions.

1. GLORIFY GOD 2. GET THE LOG OUT 1.The Log of Attitude 2.The Log of Actions 3. GENTLY RESTORE 4. GO AND BE RECONCILED

 Prepare (pray, get the facts, seek godly counsel, develop options)  Affirm relationships (show genuine concern and respect for others)  Understand interests (identify others' concerns, desires, needs, limitations, or fears)  Search for creative solutions (prayerful brainstorming)  Evaluate options objectively and reasonably (evaluate, don't argue)

 "I will not dwell on this incident."  "I will not bring up this incident again and use it against you."  "I will not talk to others about this incident."  "I will not let this incident stand between us or hinder our personal relationship."

 1. C OMMITMENT TO P EACEMAKING AND R ECONCILIATION. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God (Matt. 5:9).” A. Personal Peacemaking (The Four G’s) B. Assisted Peacemaking (Matt: 18:16)  2. C OMMITMENT TO P RESERVING M ARRIAGES. “So they are no longer two but one. Therefore, what God has joined together, let man not separate (Matt. 19:6).”

 3. C OMMITMENT TO P ROTECTING O UR C HILDREN The prudent see danger and take refuge (Prov. 27:12a).  4. C OMMITMENT TO B IBLICAL C OUNSELING “I myself am convinced, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, complete in knowledge and competent to instruct one another (Rom. 15:14).”

 5. C OMMITMENT TO C ONFIDENTIALITY “A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret (Prov. 11:13).”  6. C OMMITMENT TO A CCOUNTABILITY AND C HURCH D ISCIPLINE “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds (Heb. 10:24).”

 We acknowledge that we have read the Relational Commitments of this church and agree to live by them.   ___________________________________________________  SignatureDate   ____________________________  Print Name   ___________________________________________________  Pastor’s SignatureDate 

 These Commitments and Covenants are copyrighted by Peacemaker Ministries, which reserves all rights to these documents. These documents may not be used for resale or any commercial purposes.  Having said that, Peacemaker Ministries grants permission for these documents to be adapted and used by any local church, providing all reprints include the attribution, “These Relational Commitments are adapted from The Peacemaker Church. Used by permission of Peacemaker ® Ministries (