Ephesians 4:29 Defensiveness: Do You Want a Teachable Spirit ?

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Ephesians 4:29 Defensiveness: Do You Want a Teachable Spirit ?

Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.

Know-it-alls don’t like being told what to do; they avoid the company of wise men and women.

A sensible person accepts correction, but you can’t beat sense into a fool

- Look at the Person, Listen carefully, nod your head and respond

Ask a few questions if needed to clarify what the feedback is about, but do not interrogate the person or appear to challenge the Person.

(If appropriate) Apologize for any role you might have had in the problem.

Don’t interrupt the Person or try to explain your side of the situation at this point, just listen and try to reinforce the person for caring enough about you to share this information.

If the feedback is complex and requires some discussion about how to solve a problem, ask for suggestions and focus on achieving a constructive solution

Ask the Person if there is anything else you can do.

Thank the Person for being concerned for sharing the information with you.

Ask the Person to let you know if this happens again.

Ask the Person if you can check back in a few days or weeks to see whether the problem has been solved.

Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up.

1. Is it difficult for you to accept feedback and if so why? 2. What does a teachable spirit look like? 3. What do you need to do to have a teachable spirit?