From Blue to You Helping a Friend through Depression

What is depression? A common mental disorder or illness Involves the body, mood, and thoughts

What depression is not Depression is not the same as feeling sad or down once in a while It is not the same as “moodiness”

Is depression common? One in eight teens suffers from depression In an average classroom, 3-4 teens will have depression

Listen to the teens in this video gename=dfn_videohttp:// gename=dfn_video Pay attention to what you hear them saying.

What do you see? Depression can happen to anyone Few friends or loss of interest in friends Disturbance or change in sleeping habits Change in eating habits Influenced by –School –Friends –Family Feelings of isolation

What are the symptoms? Physical symptoms Emotional symptoms Social symptoms

Signs to look for in your friends Always tired Drops out of favorite activities Problems with schoolwork More arguments with parents and teachers More irritable than usual Looks sad Easily discouraged More distant with friends and family Talks about feeling like a failure Talks about or tries to hurt him or herself

Emergencies IF YOUR FRIEND IS TRYING TO HURT HIM OR HERSELF, OR TALKING ABOUT TRYING TO HURT HIM OR HERSELF, TALK TO A TRUSTED ADULT IF YOU DON’T HAVE TIME – CALL 911

Stigma What perceptions or beliefs do you think your friends have about depression? Why do you think teens do not ask for help when they think they may have depression? How do you think you can help to reduce stigma about depression in teens?

If your friend needs help, what can be done? Talk to a therapist Take medication Combination: talk and medication therapy

You can also look online for help Informal supports and chat rooms Blogs Websites

If you go online Practice *safe* internet habits –Share site with a trusted adult –NEVER agree to meet in person anyone you talk to online –NEVER share personal information

What to do if you think a friend has depression? Get help Talk Listen Help your friend with treatment Be active together and go out Do not expect your friend to be his or her “old self” right away

What to do if you think you have depression? Get help Keep active Eat properly Do not take alcohol and drugs Don’t get upset if you can’t sleep Do something you enjoy Read about depression

References Mayo Clinic Staff (2008). Depression: Supporting loved ones through their battle with depression. Minneapolis, MN: Mayo Clinic. Retrieved from National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) (2008c). How do children and adolescents experience depression? Bethesda, MD: National Institutes of Health. Available online: experience-depression.shtml experience-depression.shtml National Alliance on Mental Illnesswww.nami.org National Depression Initiative (Australia) The First 48 Hours: Top 10 Depression Myths Debunked By Deborah Gray Retrieved from on 1/30/08 Depression Myths Quiz: Do you have all the facts straight on depression? By Depression Expert Teri Robert Retrieved from on 1/30/08www.mydepressionconnection.com Statistics retrieved from on 1/28/08http:// Iannelli, V. M.D., Depression in Children and Adolescents. Retrieved from Study published in Psychiatric Services, April Reported in health news archive: Pill-Popping Pre-Schoolers, Even Toddlers Get the Blues Pre-SchoolersEven Toddlers Get the Blues Harvard University study reported in Harvard Mental Health Newsletter, February Retrieved from on 01/28/08http:// The Brown University Child and Adolescent Behavior Letter, Vol. 18, No 4, April 2002.

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