What should a Christian marriage be like??? LEAF L E A F Life-giving Exclusive (no-one else) Always (permanent) Faithful

Rites and Symbolism of the Marriage Ceremony To know why Marriage is a Sacrament To describe & explain the importance of the different parts of the marriage rite To evaluate the conditions needed for a Catholic marriage

What is the Sacrament of Marriage a sign of? That marriage is a vocation (to love as God loves) That the couple receive the Holy Spirit to be with them in a special way **What can make the Sacrament of Marriage invalid?

To be valid, a Christian marriage must… Write out the correct points. What 2 things would a marriage preparation course help couples to understand? **Do you think it it is a good thing for churches to insist that all married couples attend a marriage preparation course? Be in a Church Be approved by the Pope Partners must be free to marry (not already married, or in Holy Orders) be freely chosen (not for citizenship, or because parents want it, or the bride is pregnant) be an equal loving relationship & spouses take the vows seriously. Be between two Catholics be open to the possibility of having children Recognise it to be a sacred & holy union, before God be between a man and a woman Be between adults known to be fertile

What makes a marriage valid?

The Marriage Rite/ Ceremony 1. Match the answers below to your table. Check your answers on p.29. 2. Look up the definition of a “vow” and a “rite” (p.28) Explain the difference. **Think of a way to help you remember the order of marriage. Pictures? Acronym? Mnemonic? To show sacredness of marriage, designed by God. What married love should be like Vows are made to each other, before God and witnesses. Promise LEAF. So it is recognised as a civil marriage as well, & recognised in law. Explains that congregation are witnesses, should support couple It is a sacrament & vocation to which God has called them. Symbolises Unending love. Exclusive faithfulness to that one person - Are they free to marry? - To honour and love for ever? - Open to children? Strengthen the marriage by bringing Christ into the marriage God to bless their married love - to be lasting, supportive, and blessed with children The Marriage Rite/ Ceremony

1. Welcome and purpose To all the congregation Explains that congregation are witnesses, should support couple It is a sacrament & vocation to which God has called them. 2. Readings Readings from Bible and Homily To show sacredness of marriage, designed by God. What married love should be like 3. Questions By the priest to the couple - Are they free to marry? - To honour and love for ever? - Open to children? 4. Exchange of vows .. To have and to hold from this day forward, richer for poorer, sickness and in health, death do us part Vows are made to each other, before God and witnesses. Promise exclusive, lifelong faithfulness and support (EAF) 5. Exchange of rings ‘take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity” Unending love. Exclusive faithfulness to that one person 6. Nuptial Blessing Of the couple God to bless their married love - to be lasting, supportive, and blessed with children 7. Communion Received first by the couple, then congregation Strengthen the marriage by bringing Christ into the marriage 8. Signing of register Newlyweds and 2 witnesses sign register So it is recognised as a civil marriage as well, & recognised in law.

To be valid, a Christian marriage must… both partners are…………. (not already married, or in Holy Orders) choose to marry ………………… (not for citizenship, because parents want it, or the bride is pregnant) are open to the possibility of having ……………. have a ………………attitude to marriage as an equal loving relationship & mean to take the………seriously. understand that it is a …………………….. and a …………………, solemn covenant/ agreement. freely children Sacrament sacred vows free to marry responsible

Wicked Russian Queen Vampires Ride Nightly By Country Roads Marriage Rite – tell your partner the order **What vows do they make to each other? Wicked Russian Queen Vampires Ride Nightly By Country Roads welcome readings questions vows rings Nuptial blessing Holy Communion Signing Register

Explain the meaning and importance of marriage in the Roman Catholic Church.   6marks

Candidates may include some of the following points: Sacramental / sign for all to see / a solemn contract / reflection of God’s love for us – Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5 25) / life-giving and fruitful / procreation expected / sexual activity open to the possibility of new life / children to be brought up in a Christian environment / exclusive & faithful/ sexual relationships outside of marriage are forbidden as they fail to be a sign of the sacrament / lived out in the community / permanent and irrevocable, a life-long, loving relationship / cannot be broken / rings symbolise never-ending nature / reference to parts of the rite of marriage that illustrate its importance should be credited.

What promises do the bride and groom make during a Christian marriage service? (Total 4 marks)   Explain how keeping these promises might help a couple to have a successful marriage. (Total 4 marks) 8. Why do many Christians want to get married in a church? (Total 2 marks) Christians believe that marriage is a sacrament and should be conducted in a Church. They want God to bless their marriage. They want the priest to witness the exchange of vows; they want God to bless their union and be part of their marriage. Marriage is a sacred public ceremony and therefore it should be performed in a public and holy place. (Do not allow superficial responses that show no Christian content, e.g. ‘It looks nice on the photos!’ You may allow tradition but it must be linked into some other development with clear Christian content. ‘Because it is tradition’ – on its own would score no marks.) [2] 9. What does the Christian Church teach about marriage? (Total 3 marks) Marriage is a gift from God; a means whereby a couple can share in the work of creation by the birth and nurturing of children; it is a sacrament; it should be to the exclusion of all others; it is a permanent bond dissoluble only by death; it is for the mutual care and help of each partner throughout their lives; it is a lifelong commitment based upon the teachings of Jesus.It is the correct relationship for sex. It involves entering into a lifelong, loving and exclusive relationship similar to the relationship that Christ has with his Church, etc. To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part. If these vows are given in full, full marks may be given. Failing that, credit may be given for the following points: To be faithful. To bring children into the world and to give them a secure loving home.