Alcohol Role- Plays/Saying "No" Day 7 Alcohol Role- Plays/Saying "No" Day 7

TURN IN HOMEWORK! Adult Interview Alcohol Assignment

Tell your table… The most valuable thing you learned from doing the adult interview assignment

Journal 1/22/16 Why is it sometimes difficult to say “No”?

Alcohol Role-Play Lesson: Practicing saying "NO" to the pressures to drink alcohol Alcohol Role-Play Lesson: Practicing saying "NO" to the pressures to drink alcohol

WILL YOU RECOGNIZE PRESSURE LINES when you hear them???? # 1 – 10 in your notes Pg. 56 WILL YOU RECOGNIZE PRESSURE LINES when you hear them???? # 1 – 10 in your notes Pg Just the top part of your notes!

1. Everybody’s ____________.

2. We won’t get ____________.

3. No one will _____________.

4. Don’t you want to ________?

5. I’ve never been ___________.

6. Just this _______.

7. What’s the big ________?

8. Try it, you’ll _____________.

9. Don’t be a ___________.

10. If we get caught, I’ll ___________________.

ANSWERS:

1. Everybody’s doing it.

2. We won’t get caught. or We won’t get in trouble.

3. No one will know. or No one will find out.

4. Don’t you want to try it? Or Don’t you want to fit in?/have fun?

5. I’ve never been caught. or I’ve never been busted.

6. Just this once. or Just this one time.

7. What’s the big deal?

8. Try it, you’ll like it. or Try it, you’ll love it.

9. Don’t be a chicken. or Don’t be a … !!

10. If we get caught, I’ll take the blame.

Later today we are going to be in small groups role playing saying “No” and EVERYONE WILL GET A CHANCE TO BE THE PRESSURER, THE OBSERVER, AND THE SAY “NO” PERSON. You can keep this sheet in front of you to use if you need it to pressure… Later today we are going to be in small groups role playing saying “No” and EVERYONE WILL GET A CHANCE TO BE THE PRESSURER, THE OBSERVER, AND THE SAY “NO” PERSON. You can keep this sheet in front of you to use if you need it to pressure…

Activity! Peer Influence- “spin, spin, spin”

Decision Making for Alcohol and Drugs: “WWWWH”: Who - could it hurt? What - do adults think? When - is it illegal? Where - do I draw my line? How - to get out of it? (alternative?)

Dad Defends Teen Drinking Party Lesley Stahl Talks To Father Who Was Arrested For Allowing Teenage Drinking At Home By Rebecca Leung 13 Dad Defends Teen Drinking Party Lesley Stahl Talks To Father Who Was Arrested For Allowing Teenage Drinking At Home By Rebecca Leung 13

When their son, asked to throw an after-prom party with alcohol at their home, their first response was, "No way." But then, their son told them the party would be at a local beach instead -- and that got them thinking. At the beach, there would be no supervision, and everyone would have to drive home. At their house, they could lay down some rules. His son was 18 years old at the time. The dad had seen too many kids in their town lost to drunk driving, so they decided that a party with rules was the safer way to go. "The rules were anybody that walked in the door, it didn't matter if they drove or not, they were not leaving.” When their son, asked to throw an after-prom party with alcohol at their home, their first response was, "No way." But then, their son told them the party would be at a local beach instead -- and that got them thinking. At the beach, there would be no supervision, and everyone would have to drive home. At their house, they could lay down some rules. His son was 18 years old at the time. The dad had seen too many kids in their town lost to drunk driving, so they decided that a party with rules was the safer way to go. "The rules were anybody that walked in the door, it didn't matter if they drove or not, they were not leaving.”

The dad says he sat at the front door: "I took a recliner, put it down at the front door, grabbed a good novel. I let them know as soon as they came in the door, the keys came over. So, if you needed to get anything out of your car, get it done before you came into the house because once you come in the door, you don't leave.”

The dad was trying to protect the teens from drinking and driving, but…

Alcohol Risks for Teens drinking and driving alcohol poisoning it’s illegal fights and violence other illegal drugs/ gateway drug rape or sexual assault unwanted pregnancy Alcoholism hard on your body bad decisions hurt/injury body lack of self-control Suspension athletic code drinking and driving alcohol poisoning it’s illegal fights and violence other illegal drugs/ gateway drug rape or sexual assault unwanted pregnancy Alcoholism hard on your body bad decisions hurt/injury body lack of self-control Suspension athletic code Write in notes! Pg. 56

That afternoon, the son and his friends carried a keg and a half out to their back deck. Approximately 50 kids arrived that night around midnight. The dad was standing guard at the door at 3 a.m., when the police showed up on a noise complaint. The officers took names and addresses, and drove away with the kegs. The dad thought that was the end of it, until a week later, when he was arrested. The story was big news on local TV, and the front page of the paper. That afternoon, the son and his friends carried a keg and a half out to their back deck. Approximately 50 kids arrived that night around midnight. The dad was standing guard at the door at 3 a.m., when the police showed up on a noise complaint. The officers took names and addresses, and drove away with the kegs. The dad thought that was the end of it, until a week later, when he was arrested. The story was big news on local TV, and the front page of the paper.

But the charges against him were dropped, because what he did wasn’t against the law, since he didn’t purchase the kegs himself. It’s illegal in all 50 states for adults to provide alcohol to minors. But in most states, including Rhode Island, there is no law against simply allowing underage kids to drink. Many states are now passing laws to make it illegal for parents, or anyone, to allow minors to drink on their property -- whether they provide the alcohol or not. It's called a Social Host Law, and more and more states are passing these laws.

Write in notes! Pg. 56 Alcohol pressure lines/ Risks for Teens Table of contents- pg 56

Get into groups of 3!

Refusal Role-plays: Fill in all 3 names on the worksheet (know your #). Each person will be each of these roles twice: PRESSURER SAY “NO” PERSON OBSERVER Here is the rotation schedule: 1,2,3 - 2,3,1 – 3,1,2 – 2,1,3 – 1,3,2 – 3,2,1 Fill in all 3 names on the worksheet (know your #). Each person will be each of these roles twice: PRESSURER SAY “NO” PERSON OBSERVER Here is the rotation schedule: 1,2,3 - 2,3,1 – 3,1,2 – 2,1,3 – 1,3,2 – 3,2,1

Refusing & Being Assertive:

1. Amy 2. Joe 3. Logan 1. Amy 2. Joe 3. Logan NOTE: You will not be graded on the "x" so be honest so the person can do better in the second round! RULE: NO TOUCHING! Logan Joe Amy Logan Amy Joe X X X X

The WHOLE GROUP talks and fills this part out: You WILL be graded filling out your observer sheet. AFTER EACH ROUND, the whole group discuss and "Observer" fill in the sheet One good thing they did or said:_trouble with law, parents mad (Fill this in for full points) One thing they can improve on: Good reasons/ facts (If they missed something write it or put a line if they said it all)

PRACTICE!

Although you laughed and had fun with these role-plays today, in a real pressure situation it's not funny, it's awkward and can be embarrassing. These scenarios are based on real life stories. This boy took a $15.00 bet to drink a bottle of vodka. His "friend" laughed at him when he passed out and even urinated on him. By the time he finally got medical help it was too late. He later died at the hospital...

Resisting Peer Pressure Z39Mp3N8hYY 3 mins.

POP QUIZ! Don’t worry… you know all the answers

Conclusion: How to resist peer pressures to drink alcohol : 1. Have the courage to say “No.” 2. Drink something else. 3. Choose friends who don’t drink.*** 4. Avoid situations where alcohol is. 5. Have fun in a different way. How to resist peer pressures to drink alcohol : 1. Have the courage to say “No.” 2. Drink something else. 3. Choose friends who don’t drink.*** 4. Avoid situations where alcohol is. 5. Have fun in a different way.