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- Like any spoken language, body language has words, sentences and punctuation. - Each gesture is like a single word and one word may have several different meanings. 3
According to the social anthropologist, Edward T. Hall, in a normal conversation between two persons, less than 35% of the social meanings is actually transmitted by words. So, at least 65% of it is conveyed through the body (non-verbal channel). 4
A murder case in Los Angeles in An American teenager in Nigeria in 1997 An American couple in New Zealand in 1999 *…*… 5
- Nodding the head - “Yes” in most societies - “No” in some parts of Greece, Yugoslavia, Bulgaria, and Turkey - Tossing the head backward - “yes” in Thailand, the Philippines, India, Laos - Rocking head slowly, back and forth - “yes, I’m listening” in most Asian cultures 7
* Facial expressions reflect emotion, feelings and attitudes, but….. * The Asians are sometimes known as - emotionless - mixed-up emotion 9
* Eye contacts - Encouraged in America, Canada, Europe - Rude in most Asian countries and in Africa * Raising eyebrows - “Yes” in Thailand and some Asian countries - “Hello” in the Philippines * Winking eye - Sharing secret in America and Europe - flirtatious gesture in other countries 10
* Closed eyes - bored or sleepy in America - “I’m listening and concentrating.” in Japan, Thailand, China 11
* Ear grasp - “I’m sorry.” in parts of India * Cupping the ear - “I can’t hear you.” in all societies * Pulling ear - “You are in my heart” for Navajo Indians 12
* Holding the nose - “Something smells bad.” universal * Nose tap - “It’s confidential.” England - “Watch out!” or "Be careful.” Italy 13
* Pointing to nose - “It’s me.” Japan * Blowing nose - In most Asian countries, blowing the nose at social gathering is ‘disgusting.’ 14
* Whistle, yawn, smile, bite, point, sneeze, spit, kiss.. * Kissing sound. To attract attention in the Philippines, to beckon a waiter in Mexico. * Finger tip kiss. In France, it conveys several messages, “That’s good!” “That’s great!” “That’s beautiful!.” 15
* Arms akimbo. In many cultures, this stance signals aggression, resistance, impatience, or even anger. * Arms behind back, hands grasped is a sign of ease and control. * Arms in front, hands grasped, common practice in most Asian countries, is a sign of mutual respect for others. 16
* Of all the body parts, the hands are probably used most for communicating non-verbally. * Hand waves are used for greetings, beckoning, or farewells. 17
* The Italian “good-bye” wave can be interpreted by Americans as the gesture of “come here.” * The American “good-bye” wave can be interpreted in many parts of Europe and Latin America as the signal for “no.” 18
* Beckoning. * The American way of getting attention (raising a hand with the index finger raised above head) could be considered rude in Japan, and also means “two” in Germany. * The American “come here” gesture could be seen as an insult in most Asian countries. 19
* Handshaking is a form of greeting in most Western cultures. * In the Middle East, a gentle grip is appropriate. * In most Asian cultures, a gentle grip and an avoidance of direct eye contact is appropriate. 20
* Hand-holding among the same sex is a custom of special friendship and respect in several Middle Eastern and Asian countries. 21
* The “O.K.” signal. (the thumb and forefinger form a circle) means * “fine,” or “O.K.” in most cultures, * “zero” or “worthless” in some parts of Europe * “money” in Japan * an insult in Greece, Brazil, Italy, Turkey, Russia and some other countries 22
* “Thumb-up” means: * “O.K.” “good job” or “fine” in most cultures, * “Up yours!” in Australia * “Five” in Japan; “One” in Germany * Avoid a thumb-up in these countries: Australia, New Zealand, Greece, Turkey, Iran, Russia, and most African countries. 23
* Pointing. * Pointing with the index finger is common in North America and Europe. * But it is considered impolite in Japan and China where they favor using the whole open hand. * Malaysians prefer pointing with the thumb. 24
* In Asia, do not point with your toes. * In Asia and some European countries, putting feet up on a desk or any other piece of furniture is very disrespectful. * Sitting cross-legged, while common in North America and some European countries, is very impolite in other parts of the world. 25
* Walking can reflect many characteristics of a culture. For example, * In parts of Asia and some of the Middle Eastern countries, men who are friends may walk holding each other’s hand. * In Japan and Korea, older women commonly walk a pace or two behind male companion. * Asians often regard Western women as bold and aggressive, for they walk with a longer gait and a more upright posture. 26
Becoming sensitive to the clues of body language can help us communicate more effectively with students. 27
28 We can understand what students are saying even when they are not talking.
29 We can sense when students are silent and digesting information, or when they are silent and confused.
30 We can share feelings too strong or too difficult to be expressed in words,
31 Or decode secret messages passing silently from person to person,
32 And we may spot contradictions between what students say and what they really mean.
33 Finally, we can learn to be more sensitive to our own bodies – to see how they express our feelings and to see ourselves as others see us.
We do not have bodies; we are our bodies. 34
2005 NACADA National Conference Kris Rugsaken Ball State university Muncie, Indiana 35