1. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Arline Davis II World NLP and Coaching Congress January 2009

2. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality I am a mobile link Mobile links are organisms that actively move in the landscape and connect habitats in space and time. We provide cross-pollination, seed dispersal, and pest control. Biologists say we are essential components in the dynamics of ecosystem development and ecosystem resilience. Bindegliedarten

3. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Conviviality is An approach to life´s relationships

4. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Conviviality is an attitude Not reducing the other to an object or instrument only to fulfill self interests. Being present for the other in all the meaning the word present offers. Of recognizing oneself in the other and through identification come to respect, openess and care.

5. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality “Instrumentalization”

6. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality The other as a legitimate other

7. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Cultural Creatives www.culturalcreatives.org Paul Ray, sociologist and Sherry Anderson, psychologist

8. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Where and When? Rio de Janeiro, 2002

9. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Who? Mostly engineers and therapistas Ivan Illitch Martin Buber Maturana e Varela

10. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality For Whom?

11. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Auto-poesis "auto" = self, "poeisis" = creation Life is understood to have a dynamic, cyclic, and self maintaining organization

12. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality R.E.D.E. The Network for Education, Gifts and Expression

13. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality “I” the agent and the “other” as the object. Healthy “I” and “other” interactions: Land based tribe – tree as a canoe or wood for the fire, White Elk as the warrior Sunset as beautiful sight – “Look at that beautiful sunset.”

14. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality And there is also a oneness: in seeing the other, we can see ourselves.

15. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Conviviality is the continual alternation between apartness and oneness – a healthy alternative.

16. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Without balance from wholeness, apartness degrades to utilitarism.... In which “I” reduces the Other to an object for fulfilling personal interests and goals. Control prevails.

17. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Otherness What is Otherness? It is the capability of recognizing the other as a legitimate other, a complete being, with dignity, rights, and above all, with differences.

18. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Otherness The existence of the “individual I” is only allowed by contact with the “other” Or, as Gregory Bateson put it, “It takes two to know one”.

19. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality I Dimensions of Conviviality

20. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Identity Dimensions of Conviviality Others - Affiliation Marketplace Society Nature Spirit Beliefs Capacity Environment Behavior Neurological Levels of NLP

21. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Thought and Action Coaching Cycle© © NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação (Evaluation ) (New Cycle) Evaluation Foundations Formulation Implementation Transformation Consolidation

22. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality The Wheel of Life – Resourceful Relationships Enviroment & Personal Organization Finances Health & Well being Career Relationships Personal development Spirituality Leisure

23. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality How do you get there? By living it and practicing it.

24. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Life is self-organizing. Cooperation is human nature. Limitations, contradictions and incoherence are inherent to the human condition and are part of the process of development. Sharing of information and knowledge results in the well-being of all. Conviviality Principles

25. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Conviviality Practices Permanent ethical reflexion. Promote volunteerism, autonomy and iniciative. Respect, value and preserve human individuality. Invest in the potential of newness which resides in diversity. Solve conflicts by creativity and cooperation

26. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Dialogue – David Bohm Free flow of meaning within the group "Wisdom comes from sitting together and truthfully discussing our differences - without the intent to change them.” Gregory Bateson

27. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Our Conviviality Stories

28. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Tonight is a good night to dance.

29. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality What the hummingbird taught the researcher. Augusto Ruschi

30. NÚCLEO Pensamento & Ação Coaching and Conviviality Thank you! www.pnlnucleo.com.br arlinedavis@pnlnucleo.com.br