1. Understanding Values, Behaviour and Attitudes
Self Development In the context of spirituality and a practical approach
This course is designed by
Presenter : Harshal Jawale
Class 2 – Values
Understanding Values, Behaviour and Attitudes
Aurangabad Youth Seminar, India
Date – July

2. Identify the conflict in this video?

3. Who is this guy?

4. What values
does
Salman Khan
advocate?

6. Mission Statement
To offer the youth of this country an aspirational set of values to live by;
to help them achieve a balanced life focused on a spiritual goal and an ethical material life;
and to contribute to nation building.

7. What are values? We will discover what values are collectively
Watch a Video – Developing Personal Values ( )
What are values? This discussion starter defines what values are and what people and factors in our lives help to shape our individual values and beliefs.
The video is available at Uconnect dropbox/course material/students/chennai (16 sessions, 1hr each)/modules/values/values 1/developing personal values

8. What values did Duryodhan represent?
What are values? This discussion starter defines what values are and what people and factors in our lives help to shape our individual values and beliefs.
The video is available at Uconnect dropbox/course material/students/chennai (16 sessions, 1hr each)/modules/values/values 1/developing personal values

9. Key questions? Can values be taught and learnt? Are we born with them?
Is there an age limit to such learning?
Have interaction.. Time it.

10. Values Determine Behaviour
Instead of the video I will show the diagram of the buoy and explain it
“Your values are the anchor that determine how you think, make decisions, feel and ultimately behave. Changing behaviors must begin with examining your internal core values. If you value things, prestige or ideas more than people and self, your choices and behavior will be poor and bring sorrow, loss and failure to your life as well as hurt those around you”
Self and others are greater than tasks and things which must be greater than systems ideas and concepts.. - This slide is important and make sure people understand the core values.
The video is available at Uconnect/course material/students/chennai (16sessions 1hr each)/modules/values/values1/Values determine your behaviour

11. A Sample Set of Personal Values, Attitudes, Behaviors
Discipline, Prioritize, work hard
Humility, Fairness, Empathy
Kind, Generous, Giving
Honest, Truthful
Simple living
Respect, Politeness, Not hurting others
Treat others equally, avoid jealousy
Forgive and forget
Introspect and apologize even if not wrong.
Goal Oriented

12. A Sample Set of Spiritual Values, Attitudes, Behaviors
Discipline: Wake up at dawn. Do meditation at same time & place
Prayer: Begin with prayer for spiritual elevation
Fix a goal – complete oneness with God
Be truthful. Accept miseries as Gifts from God
Be plain and simple
Know all as children of God
Be not revengeful for wrongs done
Eat in divine thought
Mould life to rouse feeling of love & piety in others
Bed time, repent for wrongs committed

13. What are my three core values?
Exercise
What are my three core values?
PREPARE THE CLASS AS FOLLOWS
Responsibility to the self and others vs self centered.
How do we feel when we are cheated?
How do we feel when we cheat someone else?
What do we think of others when they behave in a noble way?
What would others think of us when we behave in a noble way?
“Arise Awake Rest not till the goal is reached” – Swami Vivekananda
AND THEN ASK THEM TO THEIR EYES FOR 3 MINS. AND IN THE FIRST PERSON “ask your self “What are my top three core values” and then write them down and turn them in at the end of the session. We will show what the class is made of next time. Anonymity is key and don’t write your names.

14. Aligning Values, Goals with the nature of real Self
Self = Value + Goal
SELF
GOAL
Behaviour
Means and ends.. Means taking care of the ends.. Ends justifying the means.
Attitudes
Values
Aligning Values, Goals with the nature of real Self

15. VIRTUOUS CYCLE OF SELF DEVELOPMENT
Having a Goal that is consistent with the real Self
Refining values, beliefs and attitudes
Gaining knowledge based on experience
Practicing to become perfect
The process of self development is Virtuous cycle. We have the higher Self, Ideal and Goals which are central to our existence. Its starts with defining a goal which is consistent with our higher SELF, refining your values, altering behaviors, gaining knowledge based on experience and practicing to get perfect.
Constant adjustment to align our values, attitudes, behaviors, cultural beliefs is essential to reach that pre-defined goal which we set for ourselves. The adjustment reinforces the process of reaching the Goal which ultimately reaches to self realization.
Self Development
Self Fulfillment
Self Realization

16. “Ordinary people can do extraordinary things.”
Values Matter
Watch a video - Values Matter (
In a world where everybody is running and never walking, where we know the price of everything but have forgotten the value of life, we have decided to walk in order to celebrate and remind ourselves what we are made of: Love, Peace, Truth, Non-Violence, Right-Conduct. Let's turn anxiety into peace, fear into love, war into non-violence, exclusion into right-conduct. Let's walk hand in hand so that this world turns into our home...Walk for Values is an annual event that takes place worldwide to promote the goodness of human beings and the unlimited amount of values we posses.
“Ordinary people can do extraordinary things.”
Values Matter
A video explaining various aspects of Values-Based Education. The video is set within Washingborough School in Lincolnshire but it is not about that specific school. The focus of the video is to explain what Values-Based education is, how it is taught, the impact it has on the students, how parents view the approach and what a school needs to do if it wishes to incorporate Values-Based Education in their school.
The video is available at Uconnect/course material/students/chennai (16sessions 1hr each)/modules/values/values1/Values matter
THE SPEAKER THANKS AND INVITES THE FACILITATOR TO CLOSE THE SESSION.

17. 10 minute quiet time… THIS IS DONE BY THE FACILITATOR.
Pay attention to yourself… try to write down what happened… Paying attention is a habit and once we do that to ourselves, we can do better with others.. Good Listeners have practiced being quiet.

18. In closing Create a new habit based on one Value
Recognize and change a habit (Ex., Avoiding laziness)
Reminders
Meditate twice a day for 10 minutes
Diary Writing
Books recommended
O Henry’s short stories
Swami Vivekananda’s books
Give examples of something they can practice… Respect, Compassion, Empathy etc.. Books recommended is such a suggestion. This may be altered.