1. Kamal Nayan Pradh

2. PREVIEW Foundations Introduction to Transactional Analysis
Ego states concept of TA
Life positioning
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3. केहि प्रस्न? एउटा खराब बिहान सधै खराब साँझमा गएर टुंगिनु पर्छ ?
एउटा खराब बिहान सधै खराब साँझमा गएर टुंगिनु पर्छ ?
कसैसंगको खराब अनुभब बिर्सिन कति गाह्रो छ ?
सम्बन्ध कसका लागि?
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4. Foundations Work- Life balance of emotions Possible !
All efforts I put into a relationship is ultimately benefitting ME.
Crux of relationship is attitude and behavior.
We cannot change behavior of others but changing ours is possible.
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5. Interpersonal Relations
What people talk to each other?
How people behave with each other?
Why people talk to each other the way they do?
Why we like some one and are comfortable around them?
Why do we have awkward moments with some people?
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6. Interpersonal relationship
अभिव्यक्ति
Stimulus
जवाफ
Response
Transaction
Parent
Adult
Child
Parent
Adult
Child
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7. Transactional Analysis
Transaction is the interaction between individuals
Transaction
Transactional analysis is the method for studying interactions between individuals TA
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8. Why Transactional Analysis?
HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS
COMMUNICATION- life blood of all relationships
Transactional analysis
TA is a system for improving communication and for understanding human behavior
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9. Self reflection
Remember something your parents/guardians often said that you still believe
Remember your childhood and explain how you felt about the rain..
Share one learning from your own experience…
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10. TA……
The three ego states are separate, permeable repositories of all our experiences and manage all our attitude and behaviour, known as Parent, Adult and Child.
Parent
Adult
Child
Managing Relationship
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11. Ego States Parent Adult वयस्क Child NASC 2018 Natural Child (NC)
Critical parent (CP)
जटिल अभिभावक
Nurturing Parent (NP) मायालु अभिभावक
Adult
वयस्क
Child
Natural Child (NC)
प्राकृतिक बालक
Adapted Child (AC)आज्ञाकारी बालक
Ego States
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12. Which combination ? P
A C A
C P C
A P
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13. IPR for an individual Personal growth and development
Entertainment and ejoyment
Sense of security
Context of understanding
Interpersonal needs
Establishing personal identity
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14. Self reflection sharing
Remember something your parents/guardians often said that you still believe
Remember your childhood and explain how you felt about the rain..
Share one learning from your own experience…
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15. Ego states..
“a consistent pattern of feeling and experience directly related to a corresponding consistent pattern of behavior.”
Reflection of deeper rooted psychological orientation.
Parent
Child
Adult
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16. Understanding Ego states
Parent: The parent represents a massive collection of recordings in the brain of external events experienced or perceived in approximately the first five years of life(or more). “Never talk to strangers” “If you are scared ,wake me up” “ People with Tattoos are bad people”
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17. “It was fun walking barefoot in the rain”
Child:
The Child represents the recordings in the brain of internal events associated with external events the child perceives.
“It was fun walking barefoot in the rain”
“When I saw my teacher angry ,I was really scared”
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18. Allows a person to validate and evaluate “parental” and “child” data.
Adult:
Allows a person to validate and evaluate “parental” and “child” data.
"You have just made an autonomous, objective appraisal of the situation and are stating these thought-processes, or the problems you perceive, or the conclusions you have come to, in a non-prejudicial manner.”
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19. Building Interpersonal Relationship
Understanding your counterpart’s Ego state.
Understanding what ego state he/she is wanting you to be in..
Responding to your benefit
For All of these analysis your Adult Ego state should be Dominant!!
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20. Complementary transactions
CP and CP
NC and NC
CP and AC
A to A
Your response??
stimulus
people who are not punctual do not work hard
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21. Complementary Transactions
NC :Let Us go out for Coffee after this work is done NC :Yes That would be fun.
CP :So you are tired of working?
CP : Do not argue with your elders.
AC : Ohh ! Ok . I wont.
NC: Why?
CP : Yes. I always thought people who argue with elders are Bad mannered people.
A: What Time is it?
A : its five.
CP : Do not be lazy.
NC :exactly!!! I’m also tired. Lets go out now!
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22. Activating effective ego state
No state of mind is good or bad.
They will either be helpful or unhelpful in certain situations.
PAUSE YOUR BEHAVIOUR FOR FRACTION OF SECOND
This helps activation of mind and adult ego state and will help identify effective ego state for the particular moment.
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23. Learning Points Pause your behavior for fraction of second.
Always try to make Positive Value assumption i.e., I am Okay, You are Okay .
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24. IPR for a manager/leader
Understanding self
Building a positive functional multidisciplinary team
Improving intra and/or inter team communication, coordination and cooperation
Improved decision making and problem solving
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25. Games people play for recognition
It Weren’t For You
What If Yes But
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26. Value assumptions/life positions
I’m ok, You’re not ok.
I’m not ok, You’re ok.
I’m not ok, You’re also not ok.
I’m ok, You’re also ok.
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27. Thank you.
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