1. Pastoraat aan die verslaafde Pastorate to the addict

2. Mat 9: En toe die Fariseërs dit sien, sê hulle vir sy dissipels: Waarom eet julle Meester saam met tollenaars en sondaars?
12 Maar toe Jesus dit hoor, sê Hy vir hulle: Die wat gesond is, het die geneesheer nie nodig nie, maar die wat ongesteld is.
13 Maar gaan leer wat dit beteken: Ek wil barmhartigheid hê en nie offerande nie; want Ek het nie gekom om regverdiges te roep nie, maar sondaars tot bekering.

3. Johannes 8:32 En julle sal die waarheid ken, en die waarheid sal julle vrymaak.
33 Hulle antwoord Hom: Ons is die geslag van Abraham en het nog nooit vir iemand slawediens verrig nie; hoe sê U dan: Julle sal vry word?
34 Jesus antwoord hulle: Voorwaar, voorwaar Ek sê vir julle dat elkeen wat die sonde doen, ‘n slaaf van die sonde is.

4. Wye verskeidenheid verslawings
Dobbel
Alkohol
Dwelms
Pornografie
Sukses
Sport
Eet
………
Christene?

5. Die oorsprong van verslawing
Pyn, leegheid
Verbreekte verhoudings
God
Medemens
Skepping
plaasvervangende oplossing
Skuld en skaamte/ ontrek
verslawing
Gewoonte/afgod

7. Sirkelgang van verslawing
Bekering
Vasbyt
Desperaat
Sirkelgang van verslawing
Snellers : val
Skuld en skaamte – dieper val

8. Red Flag/Trigger Triggers Hungry Emotions Angry Beginning Lonely Tired
Warnings!
Aloneness, fear, anxiety, self hatred, worthlessness, inadequacy, shame, stress, fatique, boredom etc

9. Conditioned response to emotional pain
Truth/Lie
In the mind
Red Flag
Reflex
Conditioned response to emotional pain
Faulty belief system
Impaired thinking

10. Need to detach from pain
Red Flag
Reflex
Reaction
Need to detach from pain

11. Reflex Despair Despair Reaction
Red Flag
Reflex
Despair
Despair
Reaction
Preocupation
Give mind over to obsessive thoughts of escape
Detach from pain by attaching to another emotion
You can live in this stage!!

12. The Sin cycle White knuckle Red Flag Reflex Despair Sin Cycle
Habitual routines leading to comfort behavior.
Think about what you have done and are going to do
Preoccupation
Punish
Deserve to be punished
Ritualization
commitment
Acting out: Taking hold of lesser desire;
Remove pain? Empower?; Feel better than to face reality? Am I better able to love God?

13. Never addresses the triggers Simply leaves one still in pain
The Law cycle
Red Flag
Reflex
Despair
Reaction
Law Cycle
Saying "No!"
Preoccupation
Never addresses the triggers
Simply leaves one still in pain
Therefore leads back to preoccupation

14. Red Flag
Despair
Formalistic
Despair
Reflex
Law Cycle
Saying "No!"
Sin Cycle
Preoccupation
Habitual routines leading to comfort behavior.
Think about what you have done and are going to do
Punish
Deserve to be punished
Ritualization
commitment
Acting out: Taking hold of lesser desire;
Remove pain? Empower?; Feel better than to face reality? Am I better able to love God?

15. Action Saying "Yes" Ritualization Red Flag
Conscious choice in response to reflex
Red Flag
Despair
Despair
Reflex
Saying "No!"
Law Cycle
Preoccupation
Punish
Saying "Yes"
To being known by God and Christ's body
Ritualization
commitment
Confess
Be known
Choose forgiveness
Choose love/worthiness
Ritualization

16. The Grace cycle Red Flag Action Hope Saying "Yes" Commitment
Conscious choice in response to reflex
Hope
Saying "Yes"
To being known by God and Christ's body
Commitment
Confess
Be known
Choose forgiveness
Choose love/worthiness
Leef as oorwinnaar, vervuld met die Gees
Ritualization

18. Sirkelgang van verslawing
Bekering
Vasbyt
Desperaat
Sirkelgang van verslawing
Snellers : val
Skuld en skaamte – dieper val

19. Die liefde van God en gelowiges
Bekering
Verbly
Vader, Seun en Heilige Gees
Desperaat
Accountability partner
Snellers : val
Skuld en skaamte
Identifiseer - voorsorg
Accountability partner lei jou na die drie-enige God