1. Directors of Nursing and Midwifery Summit - Dublin 26 May 2016
Authenticity, confidence, and the imposter syndrome
Directors of Nursing and Midwifery Summit - Dublin 26 May 2016
Chris Lake
Head of Professional Development
@chrislake1

2. The imposter syndrome What I think other people know What I know
What other people know

3. The imposter syndrome Know that it’s normal!
Ask for feedback. People will probably tell you you’re great – not perfect – but deserve your success
Save up positive comments and victories

4. What is this?
5. A pseudoplastic substance of high viscosity whose resistance to flow decreases with increasing shear (or shock) rate. After the shear is removed the original viscosity is restored.
4. "Blessed relief for Mother and the other women in the household!"
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5. How do you feel about…?

6. What do we mean by ‘brand’?
A brand is a collection of experiences and associations connected with a service, a person or any other entity. It’s what makes the product (in this case – that’s you!) different from others. It’s the reason why people should buy you, engage with you, be open to your influence.

7. Congruence and authenticity
Congruence and authenticity, or aligning ‘being’ and ‘doing’
What I do: my ‘doing’
Tools and techniques
My skills and learnt abilities
Competencies and qualifications
Role and job title
Who I am: my ‘being’
My values and my assumptions about people/reality/etc
The person I fundamentally am
My natural and core self
Congruence and authenticity
presence, alignment, integration, influence, ‘walking the talk’, personal power
Effective leadership
of self and others

8. Understanding your true ‘brand’
What adjectives would you use to describe yourself?
What are you really good at (without even trying)?
What is unusual about you? Skills, experience, wider life, character…?
What problems can you be confident of solving?
In what ways do you deserve to fill up the authority of the position you already hold?

9. Marianne Williamson A Return To Love
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.