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What is the Purpose of dating? To find a husband or wife People date in order to find out what qualities they like or dislike in a potential partner.

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3 What is the Purpose of dating?

4 To find a husband or wife People date in order to find out what qualities they like or dislike in a potential partner. People date in order to find out what qualities they like or dislike in a potential partner. When a relationship ends you should reflect on what qualities you valued in the other person and what qualities you could do without. When a relationship ends you should reflect on what qualities you valued in the other person and what qualities you could do without.

5 Tips for Healthy Dating Tips for Healthy Dating If you find that you are not really friends with someone you have a "crush" on, let that be a warning signal that something is wrong.

6 Do not think that someone who has no character is going to develop it just because you want him or her to grow.

7 If being attracted to the wrong person is a pattern, do not blame it on external reasons, but take responsibility for being the one who has a problem and work on finding its cause. If being attracted to the wrong person is a pattern, do not blame it on external reasons, but take responsibility for being the one who has a problem and work on finding its cause.

8  Make yourself face the hard questions about the person you are with. With the help of friends, be honest about whether or not you really "like" the person as well as have "chemistry" with him or her. Romantic feelings can be very deceptive, and even pathological. They are not "true love."

9 Reserve your dating life for people actively involved in the growth process. Those who are taking ownership of their deficits are less likely to develop dependencies on the strengths of others. Reserve your dating life for people actively involved in the growth process. Those who are taking ownership of their deficits are less likely to develop dependencies on the strengths of others.

10 Be in the growth process yourself. Growth attracts growth. You will find yourself more drawn to others for healthy reasons, and less attracted to others because of what you don't possess.

11  Normalize and identify each of your character deficits. Such issues as detachment, irresponsibility, over responsibility, perfectionism, authority conflicts, and the like, should be topics that you both can talk about personally, about yourself and each other. Be agents of growth, healing, and change for each other, specifically in these issues.

12 What makes a relationship healthy? Communication & Sharing: The most important part of any healthy relationship between two people is being able to talk and listen to one another. You and the other person can figure out what your common interests are. You can share your feelings with the other person and trust that they will be there to listen and support you. In healthy relationships, people don't lie. Communication is based on honesty and trust. By listening carefully and sharing your thoughts and feelings with another person, you show them that they are an important part of your life. The most important part of any healthy relationship between two people is being able to talk and listen to one another. You and the other person can figure out what your common interests are. You can share your feelings with the other person and trust that they will be there to listen and support you. In healthy relationships, people don't lie. Communication is based on honesty and trust. By listening carefully and sharing your thoughts and feelings with another person, you show them that they are an important part of your life.

13 Respect and Trust : In healthy relationships, you learn to respect and trust important people in your life. Disagreements may still happen, but you learn to stay calm and talk about how you feel. Talking calmly helps you to understand the real reason for not getting along, and it's much easier to figure out how to fix it. In healthy relationships, working through disagreements often makes the relationship stronger. In healthy relationships, people respect each other for who they are. This includes respecting and listening to yourself and your feelings so you can set boundaries and feel comfortable. You will find that you learn to understand experiences and feelings of others as well as having them understand your experiences and feelings. In healthy relationships, you learn to respect and trust important people in your life. Disagreements may still happen, but you learn to stay calm and talk about how you feel. Talking calmly helps you to understand the real reason for not getting along, and it's much easier to figure out how to fix it. In healthy relationships, working through disagreements often makes the relationship stronger. In healthy relationships, people respect each other for who they are. This includes respecting and listening to yourself and your feelings so you can set boundaries and feel comfortable. You will find that you learn to understand experiences and feelings of others as well as having them understand your experiences and feelings.

14 How do I know that I have a healthy relationship with someone? How do I know that I have a healthy relationship with someone?

15 You know that you are in a healthy relationship with someone because you feel good about yourself when you are around that person. Unhealthy relationships can make you feel sad, angry, scared, or worried. You know that you are in a healthy relationship with someone because you feel good about yourself when you are around that person. Unhealthy relationships can make you feel sad, angry, scared, or worried. Healthy peer relationships involve an equal amount of give and take in the relationship. In unhealthy relationships, there is an unfair balance. You may feel that most of the time you are giving the other person more attention than they give to you. Healthy peer relationships involve an equal amount of give and take in the relationship. In unhealthy relationships, there is an unfair balance. You may feel that most of the time you are giving the other person more attention than they give to you. You should feel safe around the other person and feel that you can trust him/her with your secrets. In a healthy relationship, you like to spend time with the other person, instead of feeling like you're pressured into spending time with them. Unhealthy relationships do not include trust and respect, which are very important parts of a family relationship, good friendship, or dating relationship. No one deserves to be in an unhealthy relationship. You should feel safe around the other person and feel that you can trust him/her with your secrets. In a healthy relationship, you like to spend time with the other person, instead of feeling like you're pressured into spending time with them. Unhealthy relationships do not include trust and respect, which are very important parts of a family relationship, good friendship, or dating relationship. No one deserves to be in an unhealthy relationship.

16 In a relationship which should come first – Emotional Intimacy or Physical Intimacy??

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18 Emotional Intimacy is much harder to achieve than physical intimacy, but is much more rewarding. Emotional Intimacy will lay the foundation for a healthy relationship capable of growth and strength. Emotional Intimacy is much harder to achieve than physical intimacy, but is much more rewarding. Emotional Intimacy will lay the foundation for a healthy relationship capable of growth and strength. A relationship built only on physical intimacy is not of firm foundation and will most likely fizzle out shortly. A relationship built only on physical intimacy is not of firm foundation and will most likely fizzle out shortly.

19 Why is it easier to be physically intimate than emotionally intimate

20 Are sex and love supposed to go together?

21 Do they in our society?

22 How does the media (tv, music, movies, music videos) shape our views on sexuality? How does the media (tv, music, movies, music videos) shape our views on sexuality? What lies has our society bought into as a result of this portrayal?

23 Guys…..  Would you respect a girl who has sexual relations with you with no strings attached?

24 Guys….  Would you want to be in a serious relationship with a girl who is known to be “sexually active”

25 Guys…  What type of girl do you see yourself marrying one day?

26 The idea that serial monogamy is ok is changing our society…How is sex without love and commitment changing our society and families? The idea that serial monogamy is ok is changing our society…How is sex without love and commitment changing our society and families? Is this concept really fulfilling or are we just brainwashed by our present culture? Is this concept really fulfilling or are we just brainwashed by our present culture?


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