Increase Awareness Decrease Risk
Technology is only a tool People determine it’s function and value
This is tough work – parenting is not for the weak Guarding the innocent will require all of us – technology is everywhere
Social Networks Pornography Hate/Cyberbullying Sexual Predators Addiction Blogging Pod Casting Innapropriate Sites (pro-Anorexia) Distraction iPod/mp3 players cell phones (SMS, chat, photo, video) television plagiarism/Theft
don’t reply to abusive messages – it only encourages the bully keep a record of events/messages or pictures think before you send pictures via or cell phone
tell someone about bullying online do not forward rude images or text about someone else treat your password like your toothbrush – don’t let anyone else use it!
develop a relationship with your child that fosters communication and trust › don’t freak out when they tell you what they have seen or heard › share the online experience › ask as if you don’t know
keep the computer in a place easy to monitor set a course for technological literacy › understand how the internet works › work with your school and other care takers to compare notes › visit online tutorials › get your own myspace.com account › know the computer lingo
focus on the purpose and value of online activity before giving permission or support supervise when your child is online › set up a Limited User Account provide structure and rules about being online › only after homework is complete › no more than one hour a day on average › all web sites must be parent approved before visiting › report any suspicious activity
Set up an account that only you can log into and review all s together Set up an outgoing only account with all incoming mail being forwarded to your accounts Use the filtering and other safety features of online web accounts
Use kid friendly services: › KidMail.com › SurfBuddies › ZooBuh › Kid Safe Mail › Kidchatters Block pop-ups and pop-unders Google your child’s userid and other similar information to get a better sense of online presence
If you choose to give your child a cell phone, choose one that is programmable and child friendly (TicTalk, Firefly, Disney) Have no unsupervised use of webcams If they must social network: › No “friends of friends” on buddy list › Make account private › Do not give personal/private information › Understand the “rules of engagement”
install extra security such as: › cybersitter › net nanny › cyberpatrol › surf control › PC Tattletale