Realities of Immigrant Family Life Why do they immigrate? What are their dreams for family/children? What are their priorities? Distrust of government authorities Low incomes, often lack formal education Isolation from extended family Trust issues, Belonging issues
Biculturalism should be our goal rather than assimilation Strengths-based approaches Value heritage, traditions, identity Understand & navigate mainstream American culture Respect Context Cultural disconnects exacerbate natural parent- adolescent conflicts Different sense of timing
Working with interpreters Use native speakers when possible Don’t rely on children Talk to the parent not the interpreter Try a few words in their language Cultural interpreters Written translations
Reunification challenges Parents feel they made sacrifices Children felt abandoned Children may have experienced trauma Disappointment follows the Honeymoon New children/step-parents Children don’t feel they fit in anywhere
Resources Parenting Fact Sheets on SCAN’s online Parent Resource Center ( Parent support groups Promotoras