What Marriage Teaches Us About COMMUNICATION – Ephesians 4:13-20 -

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What Marriage Teaches Us About COMMUNICATION – Ephesians 4:

5 T’s to communication: Take Time Together Talking, Not Telling

What is Important in Communication in Marriage? Where you go What you say Attitude with what you say Touch or no touch Honesty Attentiveness Understanding Time Body Language

The Power of Words - James 3:5-10 -

The Power of Words “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Proverbs 18:21

The Power of Words Listen to understand your spouse (James 1:19; Proverbs 1:5) Expressing yourself to be understood, without judgment or criticism (Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 10:19) Actively resolve conflict (Ephesians 4:26, 32) “Lovemaking” in marriage begins with communication involving…

The Power of Words Communication is the lifeblood of marriage

Enemies and Friends of Communication in Marriage Communication does not need: – Conversation that punishes our spouse – Conversation that forces your way – one-sided – Conversation dwelling on mistakes, past or present – BUSYNESS

Enemies and Friends of Communication in Marriage Communication needs – Genesis 2:25; Ephesians 4:15 Openness and Honesty – Conversation to inform and understand your mate - transparency – Conversation without distraction (Matt 12:30) – Conversation with Touch

The Rules of Communication in Marriage - Ephesians 4 -

A dmit B elieve C onfront and confess

What is something positive and encouraging that you could say to your spouse today? What words can you use to lift his or her spirit? What words of praise can you speak? How can you point each other to the truth of God’s Word and His promises?

CONNECT Communication is what pays attention to the needs of marriage…