Teens can get protective orders without notifying their parents against someone they are dating. at highest risk 70% of sexual assault cases involve date rape. 1 in 5 high school aged girls have experienced dating violence.
A small slap or hit “I let him do it” “I don’t want to loose him” Keep away from friends Controlling
“Big Hero” He liked me-he picked me Flattery Controlling “Like the power” Texting and calls-”Where are you, what are you doing”
Put downs-ugly, fat, stupid Disrespect in front of others Can’t make a decision Not going to change
“I don’t even know you” Break UP Don’t waste time Talk to someone Don’t deal with it yourself
Listened to seriously Treated with Respect Feel Safe Keep Relationships with friends and family Not Responsible for partners actions Not abused emotionally, sexually, or physically I can leave any relationship or fall out of love
If a friend was in an abusive relationship, what would you do? What would you say to that friend?
Healthy relationships bring happiness and health to our lives. There are basic ways to make relationships healthy, even though each one is different…..parents, siblings, friends, boyfriends/girlfriends, teachers, and classmates.
Keep your expectations realistic Talk with each other Take the time: really be there Genuinely listen Listen with your ears and your heart Ask questions Share information Be flexible Take care of you Be dependable Don’t criticize Don’t assume Don’t hold grudges
The most important thing is to BE YOURSELF! It’s much easier and much more fun to be you than to pretend to be something or someone else. Healthy Relationships are made of REAL people, not IMAGES!
Do not base your self esteem on your ability to get a date Ask questions and get the facts before accepting a date Don’t hesitate to call your parents if you need help
Be ok with staying home when you don’t want to date Stick with your commitments and don’t change your plans if someone/ something better comes along Be honest and kind when you turn someone down for a date.