Presentation on theme: "Warning Signs of Unhealthy Relationships"— Presentation transcript:
1 Warning Signs of Unhealthy Relationships Dating ViolenceWarning Signs of Unhealthy Relationships
2 Sexual HarassmentAny unwanted conduct or communication of a sexual nature that negatively affect a person’s relationships, employment opportunities or environment.Harassment may be verbal or physical.
3 Examples of Sexual Harassment Name CallingThreatsInappropriate JokesSpreading RumorsGestures/LeersWriting on Bathroom WallsGrabbingPushingCorneringUnwanted Kissing/TouchingInappropriately touching body
4 How to Deal with Sexual Harassment Let the person know that you are uncomfortable with their behavior. Tell them to stop. Be assertive.Tell someone you trust: parent, relative, coach, teacher, counselor, etc.Keep a record of the harassment to show what’s been happening.If you see or suspect something, say something!
5 Types of AbusePhysical: Can begin with threats of violence, punching fist through wall, escalates to pushing, slapping, restraining, etc. Finally, it can become life threatening.Sexual: Any non-consensual, forced sexual behavior. It may escalate to rape or sexual assault.Emotional/Psychological: Mental violence that can include constant verbal threats and abuse, harassment, excessive possessiveness, isolating abused person from others, damage of personal property, intimidation, etc.
6 Dating ViolenceA pattern of behavior to establish power and control over another person through fear and intimidation – often including the threat or use of violence.It occurs when one person believes they are entitled to control another person and those involved are in an intimate or close relationship.
7 Stats on Teen Dating Violence 1 in 4 teens will be in an abusive relationship1 in 8 teens will experience physical violence in a dating relationship.80% of assaults include pushing, shoving, slapping and grabbing.Victims and abusers come from all different social and economic backgrounds.
8 Relationship Red Flags Warning Signs of a Partner WhoIs or May Become ViolentWants to get serious quicklyWill not take NO for an answerIs overly jealous and possessiveWants to choose their partners friends and activitiesIs controlling and bossy (makes all the decisions)
9 Relationship Red Flags Puts partner down when alone and in front of othersMakes partner feel guilty – “If you really loved me you would…”Blames the victim for behavior – “It’s your fault I get so angry.” But, then apologizes – “I’ll never do it again, I promise.”Has strong ideas about gender roles.
10 Why Teens Stay Embarrassed or ashamed Afraid violence will escalate if they try to end the relationshipConvinced it’s their faultNo experience with healthy dating relationshipsConfuse jealousy with loveIgnore reality – don’t know they’re being abused
11 Why Teens Stay Afraid friends and family won’t believe them Feel like there is no one they can turn to for supportMix of “good times” and hope that partner will changeBelieve that being involved with someone is the MOST important thing in their life – better to be with someone than to be alone
12 TELL SOMEONE! What Should You Do? If you or someone you know is in an abusive or unhealthy relationship...TELL SOMEONE!Parents, friends, trusted adult, teacher, counselor, police, professional mental health worker.