PARENTS WITH MALTREATMENT HISTORIES AND THEIR EXPERIENCES OF PARENTING Teresa Hurst, MA, PhD Candidate – New School University (New York, NY) Principal Investigators: Miriam Steele, Anne Murphy, Howard Steele Presented at the American Psychological Association's Summit on Violence and Abuse in Relationships: Connecting Agendas and Forging New Directions February , 2008 Hyatt Regency - Bethesda, MD

ABSTRACT In this preliminary report, Adult Attachment Interviews (AAIs) from parents attending a weekly parent-child psychotherapy group were compared with their Parent Development Interviews (PDIs). Risk (lack of care during one’s childhood and lack of resolution of loss or trauma) and resilience (having at least one loving caregiver during childhood) were shown to relate significantly to parenting experiences in the present. Discussion addresses the intergenerational influences upon parenting in the context of maltreatment, trauma, and resolution of such experiences.

OBJECTIVES 1)How does the resolution or lack of resolution of a maltreatment history relate to one’s parenting style? 2)Are different types of maltreatment histories correlated with different experiences of parenting? 3)What are the protective factors that prevent parents with abuse histories from continuing the pattern of maltreatment? Through bridging trauma theory and attachment theory, this study aims to answer the following questions: By examining the specific mechanisms of transmission and resiliency, child abuse and neglect prevention and intervention efforts can be improved.

METHODS

THE SAMPLE  21 parents and their children were recruited from the Center for Babies, Toddlers, & Families at the Rose F. Kennedy Children’s Evaluation & Rehabilitation Center of the Albert Einstein College of Medicine atYeshiva University (Bronx, NY)  All parents and their children were participants in a weekly parent-child psychotherapy group  Sample included 19 female parents and 2 male parents ranging in age from 21 to 67 years (M = 34 years)  Sample included 23 children (11 girls, 12 boys) ranging in age from 14 months to 9 years (M = 4.5 years)  Ethnically diverse parent sample: 12% Caucasian, 40% Latino/a, 24% African American

ADULT ATTACHMENT INTERVIEW (AAI: George, Kaplan & Main, 1984)  minute, 18-question interview designed to assess an adult’s childhood experiences (what happened) and their current state of mind with regard to attachment (what they make of it)  Example questions:  Can you give me 5 adjectives to describe your early relationship with your mother/father?  What happened when you were emotionally upset or physically hurt?  How have these experiences influenced the kind of person you are today?  AAI interviews were transcribed verbatim and coded according to Main, Hesse and Goldwyn’s (2008) AAI classification system

PARENT DEVELOPMENT INTERVIEW (PDI: Aber et al., 1985)  60 minute, 21-question interview designed to assess a parents’ representations of their children in four main areas: 1.View of their child 2.View of the relationship with their child 3.Affective experiences of parenting 4.Separation experiences from child  PDI interviews were transcribed verbatim and coded according to the Parent Development Interview Coding System (Slade et al., 1993)

PRELIMINARY FINDINGS

Maltreatment History of Parents in Sample

Parental Attachment Classifications: AAI 4-Way Distributions

Overall Satisfaction With Support Grouped by Resolution of Past Trauma/Loss Note: t = 2.26, p <.05, df = 1, 14

Consequences of Being Rejected By One’s Own Primary Caregiver  More anger felt towards child (r = -.68*)  Less joy with child (r = -.73**)  Less warmth with child (r = -.73**)  Less parenting competence (r = -.81***)  Less reflective functioning (r = -.83***)  Less richness of perceptions of child (r = -.81***)  Less awareness of attachment (r = -.73**) Note: *** p <.0001, ** p <.001, * p <.01

Protective Influences of Having at Least One Loving Caregiver  More satisfaction with support (r =.73 ** )  More parenting competence (r =.60 * )  More parenting confidence (r =.60 * )  Richer perceptions of child (r =.60 * )  Better reflective functioning (r =.73 ** )  More coherence when speaking about child (r =.76 *** ) Note: *** p <.001 ** p <.01, * p <.05

CONCLUSIONS  Parents in the sample were 2.3 times less likely to have secure attachment patterns than parents in the general population and 2.7 times more likely to be unresolved in relation to past trauma or loss.  Being unresolved with past trauma and/or loss was significantly correlated with being less satisfied with current support levels.  Having a rejecting parent in childhood was significantly correlated with a current parenting experience that was more angry, less joyful and less competent.  Having at least one loving parent in childhood was significantly correlated with a current parenting experience that was more confident, competent, and reflective.

IMPLICATIONS FOR RESEARCH/PRACTICE/POLICY  When devising and implementing interventions for families or families-to-be, it is critical to evaluate a parent’s own potential history of maltreatment or abuse and their level of resolution of that history  If a parent is unresolved with regard to past trauma or loss, additional considerations need to be made around type and length of intervention  If a parent was rejected or neglected as a child, it may be beneficial to include attachment awareness education as part of the intervention  At least one loving and healthy relationship in a child’s life can help that child grow up to be a parent who breaks the familial cycle of abuse and neglect.

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