Quotes from… How did she get here?… “I got so drunk last night I don’t remember what I did. I know I got sick, and I think I had sex – I’m not really sure, though.” –Girl, 14 How did she get here?…

How could this have been avoided?… Quotes from… ‘I got drunk at a party. I don’t remember having sex, but my friends say I did. Now this girl is saying she is pregnant and its mine’ – Boy, 14 How could this have been avoided?…

Quotes from… Why did she do it?… “I’m pregnant and I need your advice. I had sex when I was drunk. I don’t know the father. I feel like a slag.” – Girl, 12 Why did she do it?…

What should they have done different?… Quotes from… ‘I got drunk and had sex with a 17-year-old at a party. I’ve just taken the pregnancy test and it’s positive. The boy has said it isn’t his. I want to do my A-levels, but I’ve ruined my life. I’m so ashamed.’ – Girl, 16 What should they have done different?…

Objective… To use advertisements, beer goggles and group work to understand the consequences of having sex under the influence of alcohol.

Outcomes… outcomes All Will be able to list how alcohol effects us physically. Will be able to list how alcohol effects us the decision we make. Will be able to describe some consequences (either physical, social or emotional) of having sex under the influence of alcohol Most Will be able to describe 2 considerations a person might have before they make the choice to have sex and be able to explain how these may be influenced by alcohol.

Starter… 1. We need 1 boy and 1 girl. Put on the goggles and spin around 3 times Make your way to the back of the room – collect the pen and paper. Come to the front of the room – copy what is written on the board. Post the paper into the box Lets do a test... The goggles aim to create the physical effects of alcohol though they cant help you experience all the effects they can give you an idea.

How does alcohol affect the body physically (short term)? Decreased/ poor mobility Lack of spatial awareness Sick/vomiting Lack of co-ordination Lack of balance Slower reactions Disorientation Slurred speech Blurred vision Drowsiness List as many ideas as you can on your sheet...

Are we affected in any other way than physically? It also affects our choices! Mentally, emotionally and socially!

How does affect our choices?... Drinking How does affect our choices?... 10

What choice will you make?...

Watch the following clip… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7F5o3NSHMoM How can alcohol affect the choices/ decisions people make? List as many ideas as you can on your sheet... Loss of inhibitions Consciousness Lack of reality Increased confidence Easily persuaded Don’t think of consequences Cant reason Lack of understanding Vulnerable Depression/upset Hyperactivity Feeling indestructible

Watch the following clip carefully… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hba3clJ9XWw Watch the following clip carefully…

What point is this film maker trying to get across? Is his portrayal of drunken people accurate? – WHY/WHY NOT?

? When making a decision what do we consider? Experiences Is it right? Beliefs ? Parents Pros/Cons Peers Consequences

What do people consider when making a decision about sexual activity? List 2-3 ideas on your sheet. Did you have any of the following? Consequences Responsibilities Am I being pressured? Do I trust my partner? Do I love my partner? Am I ready? Do I want to have sex? Will my morals, religion or family be affected by my decision? Will I feel guilty or bad afterwards if I have sex? Protection (against pregnancy and STI’s) Do people consider these things when drunk? Next to your ideas write how these considerations might be effected if a person was under the influence of alcohol. For example would they consider protection if you were drunk?

When people are drunk they may not necessarily make the same decision as when they’re sober. They are more likely to make decisions they regret, less likely to practice safer sex, and more at risk of sexual assault.

One of the main ways that alcohol affects safe sex is not being able to put on a condom correctly. That is assuming you know how to do that properly in the first place….

Condom Quiz

What should you check for on a packet of male condoms? Condom Quiz What should you check for on a packet of male condoms?

Answer to Q1 Expiry date Packet not pierced or ripped

How should you store condoms when not in use? Condom Quiz How should you store condoms when not in use?

Answer to Q2 A cool, dry place Not in direct sunlight – causes the latex to go dry and perish (tear easily)

When should the male condom be put on? Condom Quiz When should the male condom be put on?

Answer to Q3 Male: once the penis is erect Female: at any time before sex Both: before any genital or anal contact has taken place

How many times can you use a single condom? Condom Quiz How many times can you use a single condom?

Answer to Q4 Once!

Does using two condoms at a time make them stronger or safer? Condom Quiz Does using two condoms at a time make them stronger or safer?

Answer to Q5 No. Two condoms will cause friction and make the condom more likely to split 

What sort of condoms are best for oral sex? Condom Quiz What sort of condoms are best for oral sex?

Answer to Q6 Any but flavoured condoms are not lubricated and come in a range of flavours

What sort of condoms are best for anal sex? Condom Quiz What sort of condoms are best for anal sex?

Answer to Q7 Extra strong if you have them. If not, standard strength condoms if used with plenty of WATER based lubricant.

What type of lubricant can you use with a condom? Condom Quiz What type of lubricant can you use with a condom?

Answer to Q8 Female – any. Male – never use OIL based products such as body oil, baby oil, creams or lotions. They attack the latex and make the condom more likely to split.

How should you dispose of a condom? Condom Quiz How should you dispose of a condom?

Answer to Q9 Wrap them up and throw them in the bin. DON’T put them down the toilet, the sewers can’t break them down.

We need two volunteers – 1 boy and 1 girl. Lets test this out… Last year you did a lesson on condoms and how to use them correctly and safety. You must remember what you have learnt and apply this knowledge… wearing the BEER GOGGLES! We need two volunteers – 1 boy and 1 girl.

What are some consequences involved when alcohol is mixed with sexual activity? Consequences are often divided into three categories: 1- Physical 2- Social 3- Emotional In groups you will each be given a category. List as many consequences as you can linked to your category.

Physical... Pregnancy STI’s Abuse Rape Violence Fighting

Social... May break up Arguments Lose friends Cheat Get into unwanted relationship

Emotional... Guilt Shame Embarrassment Depression Upset Regret

Watch the following clip… http://www.truetube.co.uk/body-and-health/sexual-health/drunk,-disorderly-and-unprotected This clip is called ‘drunk disorderly and unprotected’ – what do you think the unprotected stands for? How does alcohol affect the young peoples decision making in this clip?

Think back to the quotes and questions at the start of the lesson. Plenary... Think back to the quotes and questions at the start of the lesson. On your sheet write a short response to each based on what you have done this lesson.

Quotes from… How did she get here?… “I got so drunk last night I don’t remember what I did. I know I got sick, and I think I had sex – I’m not really sure, though.” –Girl, 14 How did she get here?…

How could this have been avoided?… Quotes from… ‘I got drunk at a party. I don’t remember having sex, but my friends say I did. Now this girl is saying she is pregnant and its mine’ – Boy, 14 How could this have been avoided?…

Quotes from… Why did she do it?… “I’m pregnant and I need your advice. I had sex when I was drunk. I don’t know the father. I feel like a slag.” – Girl, 12 Why did she do it?…

What should they have done different?… Quotes from… ‘I got drunk and had sex with a 17-year-old at a party. I’ve just taken the pregnancy test and it’s positive. The boy has said it isn’t his. I want to do my A-levels, but I’ve ruined my life. I’m so ashamed.’ – Girl, 16 What should they have done different?…